NWR: My aunt is basically calling me ugly

posted 3 years ago in Family
Post # 3
8850 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

@BakerBee16:  ummmm…. what a B !

Post # 4
1951 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

@BakerBee16:  Whaaaa? That is rude as heck! I’d be snarky next time and say something like “Wow, *insert bitchy Aunt’s name* Just, wow.”

Sometimes being blunt is the way to go. If it was one time, I’d let it slide, but damn, she is totally unaware. 

Post # 5
9019 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@BakerBee16:   Maybe she’s not really saying you’re ugly.  What kind  of picture is it?  Is it very risque or something she’s finding offensive (like way too much cleavage, for example)?  If it’s just a normal picture of your face, though, yeah – she’s being way rude.

Post # 6
5432 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014 - Ontario, Canada ♥ EDD- April 2016

Umm, not going to lie – that’s really really weird and rude aha

Post # 7
4138 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Uh. OK.


Is it possible you’re scantily clad or making ducky face or something and she find’s it offensive? :

I don’t think she’s outright calling you ugly. 

Post # 8
3635 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I’d give her a couple chances then respsond something like “Wow Auntie – I hope your account got hacked – never knew you were such a bitch, LOL!”

Post # 9
920 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

that’s really rude but a little humorous because it seems like we ALL have that one relative on facebook who drives us nuts…. you should just message her. i would say-

“hey Aunt Meanie, I hope all is well with you. I love being your Facebook friend and that it gives us a way to easily stay in touch! However, some of your comments on my recent photos have been a little hurtful! I was hoping you could refrain from commenting on my photos and posts if you are going to post something negative.” 

Post # 10
1626 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Are you wearing something risque or half drunk partying with a bunch of friends holding a beer or making a duck face?

Because if the answer to all of those things is no, block that bitch and send her a message telling her why you did so. And then smile oh so pretty at her at family gatherings.

F that noise.

Post # 11
8388 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

@BakerBee16:  Your aunt sounds a bit crazy, but potentially fun.  My mom used to do this to me, so then I’d put comments like, “hmm everyone has been telling me I look so much like you” or I’d post a picture of her that looked similar.  She stopped pretty quick.

Post # 12
4760 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

click unfriend, who cares if it your aunt?  Had DH do it to a “friend” that never had anything nice to say just yesturday.  Best solution ever.

Post # 13
565 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I would totally block her. And report her to FB for harrassment. 

Post # 14
615 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

YOu can put her on restricted status–then she can only see phoitos you’ve made public. You can also change setting so that she can’t comment on your wall. Problem solved!

Post # 15
275 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I would personally send her a message telling her that her posts have really hurt your feelings, and to please refrain from posting such hurtful things on peoples public facebook pages.

Then I’d block her.

what a b. nobody could be that clueless.

Post # 16
3787 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@almostmrsj:  Bahaha! This. I kind of like this. 

OP, don’t even worry about this. She seems like a big ‘ol Bia… ; )

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