Post # 1
This is the dumbest rant ever, but I can’t help it.
I LOVE my little bro. Seriously. He is awesome. My family is from upstate NY, but I live in NYC and my bro is going to school down here. My SO and I told him he could stay with us for the summer because he didn’t want to go back upstate. He moved in the first weekend of May and is leaving Labor Day weekend.
It took a while for my SO to warm up to the idea. He’s very private and at first really wasn’t okay with it. I finally got him to cave and I was excited about the idea.
Well, now my SO loves having my bro here so much he doesn’t want him leave. My SO and my brother are both huge gamers… I play once in a while, but man not like they do. I guess my SO liked having someone around who was so into it like he was.
Now, I am so DONE with both of them. Last night my SO and I were cuddling together on the couch and were getting ready for some “sexy time” when BAM my brother comes home and is like dude let’s play some games. My SO was like okay and then didn’t come to bed til like 1AM (I didn’t make it past 11:30).
I love having my bro around and he’s only here for like 3 more weeks, but dag what a cockblock!
Post # 3
Time for your brother to leave!! I also live in NYC and get super-nervous when anyone talks about coming to visit. I don’t like having people over even for just 1 night!! DH’s younger cousin has totally invaded our space twice now, showing up unannounced with no place to stay and just expected us to roll out the red carpet for an entire weekend! You don’t go to visit a married couple in a 1 bedroom apartment and just expect to stay as long as you want. I’m so sick of people taking advantage of us!
Post # 4
uh oh. for some reason I didn’t even think about “sexy time” when we told my SIL that she can stay with us over this next semester….. CRAP! We do it whenever and where ever we want now…. man!! that sucks! I feel your pain!
Post # 5
@moderndaisy: If anyone showed up unannounced I would FREAK!!! Sometimes friends or family will ask to crash, but our rule is for 1 night ONLY. My bro gave us a ton of notice and my SO and I had plenty of time to think it over. Yea we have an air mattress for emergency guests and yea everyone wants to visit cuz I live in the “big city” but man this 1 bdrm is TINY and I am not a hotel! LOL
@breezer: Honestly having him around has not disrupted our sexy time… Except that we have to keep it in the bedroom so even though we can still do it “whenever” the “wherever” has suffered. Haha… I love having him here, but I’m deff looking forward to having my living room back too!
Post # 6
@TinyTina: ummmm… I’d be FURIOUS with my SO. In fact, I HAVE been ticked at him when we let his son stay over (his son is 18 and lives with my FI’s ex- in the basement of her house) and decided to stay up late with him. It’s like my FI doesn’t want to come to bed at all since his son is there.
I understand it since they don’t see much of each other, but COME ON!!! it’s one thing to do it on a weekend when I don’t have to get up early; it’s another when I do! (did I mention we also live in an apartment? 2 bedroom – but our youngest two get the other bedroom.)
if it were me, i’d have torn into my FI by now about his gaming with my little brother… but that’s just me. (of course, I’m also the one who lures my FI into the bedroom for fun frequently, too! LOL!)
hope this gets smoothed out soon for you!!!