- 5 years ago
- Wedding: June 2014
I’m having a bunch of bad luck and a lot of bad days lately that started on December 22nd. I need to get this off my chest.
My FI totaled my car on Dec 22nd, no one hurt just my car. Insurance will just go up and I already pay a ridiculous amount so that my deductibles are low when things like this happen. Got a new used car but had to take a loan as insurance never gives you enough to replace your vehicle.
My dog got sick Dec 31st, admitted to an emergency hospital as our vet’s office was closed. The hospital put a heating pad on him and it burned him as they also sedated him and he couldn’t get out from under it on his own. He had a lot of swelling and lesions aka third degree burns. Hospital admitted fault but they only want to pay us for our dog to see a specialist which he doesn’t need, they just want to drain more money from us. During his stay at the hospital they tried to tell us he needed all these extra tests, xrays etc which he didn’t need either but they did it to rack up his bill. I trusted they were telling the truth because my dog’s vet wasn’t available, if he was I would have never taken my dog to such a place.
Our vet recommended surgery before his wounds got infected. He had skin graft surgery yesterday so that his body would heal properly. He will be at the vet’s for at least another week. The battle will begin with the hospital’s insurance co, their parent co and us to get them to cover his bills because it’s the right thing to do. They could have killed our dog and we’re not looking to sue them, we just want his bills covered.
My FI took a job in Sept where he makes a lot more money than his old job. He hates it and tells me he wants to quit everyday because his boss is a certifiable crazy and not a nice guy. It’s super stressing me out especially right now as my dog’s bills are piling up, the stuff with my car, etc.
My wedding plans are basically on hold because I refuse to try to plan a wedding when my budget is unknown. I don’t want to put more money out if I simply don’t have it. That entirely sucks right now because I could use something happy and fun to look forward to.
Trying to stay positive but there are moments where I want to crawl into bed and sleep for days. It’s just me and my fiance and although it is probably strengthening our bond to go through this, it’s a lot on just the two of us at the moment. I’m sad, I’m frustrated, I’m exhausted and I need a break. I’m sure we all have things going on that make us want to cry at times , well this is mine. They say things can always be worse, not sure my sanity could take much more.
TGIF, so happy it’s the weekend and work is one less thing I have to deal with for the next 2 days.