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NYC/NORTH NJ WEDDING BEE HELP! 911!

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    abomb26    05/16/2008  

    Hi fellow wedding bees, I have a 911!!!!

     I can't get married in my original ceremony location, it's a long story but its awful right now. I need to locate an inexpensive site that expects a couple where (one is divorced but not annulled (I mention this in case you suggest a catholic religious site). I am getting married on friday, may 16th, 2008.

    I already have my NJ reception location so we would love to keep it near North NJ or NYC due to the fact that my FH has elderly parents. I been scouring the internet but everyone is asking for loads of money and I dont have it. I thought with all all our expert present & future brides, someone will send me a solution.

     Thank you so much!

     

     

     
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    Is there a reason why you can't (or won't) have the ceremony at the reception site?  Seems like that would be the easiest way...

     
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    abomb26    05/16/2008  

    Cant do it there.

     
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    amysue    6/6/09  

    I don't suppose you've hit up your knot.com boards? I know they can be scary, but women on there usually have really great suggestions for specific questions like this.

    Sorry I can't be of more help - what a rotten situation! 

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    Have you looked at any public parks?  Frequently they are very reasonable to get a permit/rent for this type of thing and they often have pavillions if the weather is rainy.  You can then hire an officiant for the ceremony for a bit more.  Parks could also include some historic buildings.  My BF was married in an old meeting hall in a small town in CT.  It had the charm and feel fo a church but was not religous (important to them) and was economical. 

     
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     A few suggestions:

     Governor's Island --  http://www.govisland.com/Facility_Rental/default.asp

    Kirkpatrick Chapel (part of Rutgers) -- the fee is $600 -- I don't know if that's over your budget - http://www.kirkpatrickchapel.rutgers.edu/KirkpatrickChapel.htm

    The Frelinghuysen Arboretum in Morristown -- http://www.arboretumfriends.org/weddings.php

     Good luck!

     

     
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    Missy1963    10/11/2008  

    I actually saw someone get married in Hoboken along the water, which was really nice.

     How about a golf course or country club?  If your willingto get married at 4:00 - most places have nothing going on at this time on a Friday, so they should be willing to give you a good deal.  Did you block a group a rooms at a hotel - maybe the hotel where your friends and family or staying or the hotel where your spending your wedding night.

     
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    cupcake    September 20, 2008   Philadelphia

    Are there any non-denominational chapels in the area that would marry you?  Or perhaps there is a park (as tberry suggested) or public memorial/pavilion kind of area that you could use and hire an officiant.

    Don't be afraid to think outside of the box.... is there a cool library or historic home in the area that would work?  A restaurant that has a private room that you could use for the ceremony, and then use their bar for a pre-cocktail hour before moving to your reception venue?  Does a friend have a big backyard that they'd be willing to let you use?  A B&B?  A cool old train station?  Get creative!

     
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    ghkim9    4/19/08   New York, NY

    if you are open to nyc, st paul's chapel at columbia university is fairly low maintenance, since they are university-associated. i am getting married there and picked it because they do not have any religious requirements. i believe they charge 1150 for a ceremony, but i would check with them for availability asap. they will give you a 2hr time frame during which you can take pics/have your ceremony. hope that helps!

     
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    abomb26    05/16/2008  

    I'll try Hoboken Parks now.

     
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    abomb26    05/16/2008  

    Thank you, thank you. Keep sending!

     I am calling St. Paul's today and Central Park, hopefully there are more ideas and I'll find my plan.

     

    Wedding bees rock, why would I go to the Knot.

     

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