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October Brides -- Have you sent your STD's yet?

posted 1 year ago in October 2011
  • poll: October STD's
    Sent! : (41 votes)
    47 %
    Waiting for 6 months : (38 votes)
    43 %
    Not Sending Them : (9 votes)
    10 %
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    bonsai_spork    October 1, 2011   Wisconsin

    Just wondering who has sent STD's and who is still waiting, I am torn between sending them relatively soon, and sending them at about the 6 month mark.

     
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    MelBell11    September 24, 2011   Cleveland, Ohio

    I'm September, but the last weekend, so I voted too :)

     
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    .twist.    October 7, 2011   Alberta, Canada

    I'm not sending them.

     
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    BlueRidgeMere    October 22, 2011   Western NC

    I might be getting a reeeeally good deal on some STDs done by a friend, so we might send them out at 6 mos, but then again, we may decide we don't want to bother :P

     
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    AnneTossy    October 8, 2011   Virginia

    We'll be sending ours in late March..A little before the exact 6 month date, but I work for an accountant and April is HELL because of tax season. I'd rather not have to worry about them then!

     
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    elliestan    October 15, 2011   OK | TX

    you should add another choice - haven't sent them YET instead of 6 months. we're sending after we get our e-pics back (taking them in a few weeks), so about 7 months out. we have a lot of people starting to contact us, i guess worried they're not invited!

     
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    maggiemalloy    October 15, 2011   chicago

    I sent them around Christmas time.  I tried to kill 2 birds with one stone so I combined our STD's with our Christmas card!  They were a hit!

    Depending on when your wedding is and what kind of style you are going with, you could always incorporate them into some kind of Valentines Day card.  Good luck!

     
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    R.Elliott    September 24, 2011   Dallas, TX

    I'm late September too! Ours are ready to go but are being dropped in the mail on March 1st. Our engagement party is the last weekend in February and I don't want to 1. bombard people with wedding mailings and 2. confuse them.

     
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    bonsai_spork    October 1, 2011   Wisconsin

    Well, since it seems like a bunch of people have already sent them, maybe I should get on the ball with this and get mine out sooner rather than later! So EXCITED!

     
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    ktbrady    October 29, 2011   North Carolina

    I'm sending them in Feb or March, whenever my step mom finishes the design and I figure out how to get them printed and packaged!

     
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    Charcole2011    October 1, 2011   New York City/South Carolina

    I'm in the process of addressing them now, and trying to get them sent next week.  We are October 1, but a "destination" wedding in that 95% of the guests will be travelling, so I wanted to send them sooner rather than later.  I have already had people asking about flight and hotel details!

     
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    cyndistar3    September 3, 2011   Post Falls ID

    I am either late September or early October but no... I have to wait a while (until I get a date)

     
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    UpstateCait    October 7, 2011   Upstate, NY

    An "other" option would be helpful since thats there I fall. We haven't sent them yet but I'm planning to in the next few weeks. I'm shooting for before the end of February. 

     
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    Bubu82    October 1, 2011   Indianapolis, IN

    We haven't sent them yet, but not because we're waiting for the 6 month mark. It's just because I haven't picked out any of my "paper" yet - STDs, invites, etc. That is next on my to-do list!

     
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    tink4kali    October 29, 2011   Southern California

    We sent ours out at the end of December because we were already getting family and friends asking about our date so they could request off work at the beginning of the New Year.

     
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    marylandmel    October 22, 2011   Baltimore, MD

    I sent mine out about 2 weeks ago!

     
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    LemonPuppy    October 9, 2011   Washington, DC

    I put mine in the mail yesterday!  We are having our wedding on Sunday of a holiday weekend and 95% of our guests are from out of town.  We wanted to get them out early to give people a heads up that it was a Sunday night and not a Saturday.

     
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    marilovely    October 15, 2011   VA

    I'll be sending mine out in the next two weeks (IF I can get FMIL to give me the addresses I've been asking for since November - I'm seriously considering shipping all of the STD post cards for her family to her and making her address them) ... but 95% of our guests will have to fly to our wedding AND it has the possibility of being homecoming weekend at the local university making hotel blocks super important to get done early.

     
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    mshoagie    October 7, 2011   PA

    I've made them, but am waiting until March to send them out.  Very few people are from out of town, so making travel arrangements isn't a huge deal.  

     
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    UpstateCait    October 7, 2011   Upstate, NY

    I posted a few days ago saying that we would be sending ours out in a few weeks but we actually will be sending them out in the next few days. A number of our close family and friends have already received STD's for weddings in October so people are definitely already sending them out. We're also getting married Columbus Day weekend so we wanted to make sure our guests STD before making plans for that weekend. 

     
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    klb2748    October 15, 2011   Illinois

    We got ours in last week and we are going to hand them out to our family and friends we often see until March then send out the remaining cards! 

     
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    Waves2    October 22, 2011  

    Will be ordering my STD's the end of this month, and they will go out the last week of March.

     
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    Meshka    October 15, 2011   New Hampshire

    I just sent mine on Feb 8th for a October 15th wedding.  I was going to wait but I have another wedding to attend on October 1st, the following weekend is Columbus Day (Oct 10th) and then our wedding which is at the beach, in a tourist spot is the weekend after the holiday.  So i opted to send them early. 

     
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    Imagelicious    October 9, 2011   Toronto, Ontario

    I'm giving them out (not sending) this weekend. Our wedding is on Canadian Thanksgiving Long Weekend, so I have to make sure that people know and plan accordingly.

     
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    MUI831    October 22, 2011   Chicago, IL

    I don't know if we're sending them or not.  We haven't had our e-pics done and will probably not do that until April (at the earliest).  Might just use word of mouth. 

     
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    gemini22    June 19, 2011  

    I just ordered them last night! I think I will send them out at the end of March.

     
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    AnneTossy    October 8, 2011   Virginia

    I sent mine out Friday so most people would have them for Valentines day. A little earlier than expected, but they turned out really cute and I'm glad to be done with them! Work is getting cray cray.

     
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    Miss Biner    November 5, 2011  

    I just got engaged on Sunday, so I'm behind on a lot of things.  We're waiting until the 6 month mark thought for STDs.  It is OOT, but only about half an hour to two hours (depending on which side of the city you're on), so I'm not too worried about it. 

    Also, I'm scheduled to take the GRE next week, so other than the occaisional check in on the 'bee, I'm not doing any planning!  Off to study now as a matter of fact!

     
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    jillieb    October 8, 2011   Arizona

    I just ordered some samples today.. I pretty much know what I want but wanted to see the actual paper ahead of time, so once that comes I will order and send them... So I am waiting, but not for 6 month mark.. just for things to get here! 

     
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    MaiFuture    October 1, 2011   Texas

    I'm getting mine in this week and hopefully that means sending them out soon! I wasn't even going to do them, but I want to be on peoples fridges! =P

     
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    Ryansgirl    October 22, 2011   Canada

    I was going to send them in April which is approximately 6 months before the wedding.

     
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    2bMrsG    October 13, 2011   Pittsburgh, PA (Las Vegas Wedding)

    We aren't sending any because we're busy enough as it is and we'd like to cut down the costs. Since a lot of our guests own a computer, we might send out STD emails as soon as we book the reception venue and lock in the date.

     

     
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    BellBride    October 8, 2011   Birmingham, AL

    I am actually going to be a little behind, our engagement pictures are on april 17th... and it takes 2 weeks to get them so i will be sending mine the first week of May so 5 months :/ oh well!!!

     
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    lovekiss    October 9, 2011   Maryland

    I just sent our proofs back to the printer today. We should have the next, and hopefully final round, of proofs next week, which means we will be mailing them just shy of the 6 month mark, exactly as planned. It's a small wedding, so all of our guests already know the date anyway. But we wanted a visual reminder for everyone, and I will take any excuse that I can get to visit the stationary store. :)

     
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    mshoagie    October 7, 2011   PA

    Whoot!  They just went out in todays mail!!!!!

     
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    MsBrewer    October 1, 2011   Milwaukee, WI

    Mine went out 2 weeks ago!

     
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    cynthia418    October 29, 2011   Wedding El Paso/ Living Bethesda, MD

    @BellBride: I'm on the same boat! We just took our on Saturday, so they wont be out a few more weeks. 

     
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    ADBK2011    October 1, 2011   Atlanta

    They went out in the middle of March.

     
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    MrsZilla    October 1, 2011   Albany, NY / Wedding: Poughkeepsie, NY

    Ours are sent =) Half the guests are traveling from out of town (FI's side of the family.. wedding is in my hometown and only my aunt who lives in FL has to travel for our side of the family) so we wanted to make sure people had plenty of time to find/book/etc hotels

     

    and i was sort of over-excited and couldnt wait to send something out Sealed

     
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    Waves2    October 22, 2011  

    I know I already replied, but that was 2 moths ago. My Save The Dates were sent out the last week of March- FINALLY:)

     

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