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Hey ladies! So.. my wedding is October 2 so I am sure that my invites are out before a lot of yours but let us start our very own RSVP count.
I am currently at 169 invited (desperately hoping for under 170)
39 Yes's
2 No's
Eeek! I need it to at least be down to 160. I am counting on 16 tables.. haha
I am so jealous, LOL....My invites aren't going out until the end of the month 
My invites went out July 24th (a week early!) - Wedding is the 1st of October.
Invited: 198 (was supposed to be no more than 150)
So far:
43 yes
0 no
I am hoping for no more than 170 and 150 would be fabulous!!
@aubrav: I sent mine out July 24th. I was away all last week so it was either then or wait until yesterday. I couldn't wait.
I got 2 more yes's last night so I'm up to 41!
We're at 50 yes's and 7 no's
We invited 170 and I'm pulling for 150 for the final count!!
Of course we've had three guests add uninvited people on their RSVP's. Argh!
Sounds like a bunch of us are in the same boat, my out-of-town invites went out July 19th, I've gotten:
17 yes
6 nos (5 of those we've known for awhile that they couldn't make it)
My venue can only hold 100, we're inviting 122... if the rule of "30% won't show" actually happens we'll be in great shape... otherwise, I'm very worried...
No uninvited guests yet, but a FI who wants to continue to add people is what I have.
My second round of in-town guests goes out today, wish me luck!
Well, my invites just went out last week, sooo... lol
80 guests invited. So far:
12 yes
2 no
I've spoken to a few other people who have said they're coming, but I haven't received their RSVP cards yet, so I'm not counting them for now. FI and I are expecting about 55 people to come, but if by some freak occurrence everyone RSVPs "yes," we can accomodate them. However, I really don't think that will happen.
Yay this is fun! I just sent out my invites last week! 200 invites, 32 yes, 2 no! :) And I haven't checked the mail yet today!
On another note - 4 FAMILIES forgot to put their names on their RSVP card!!! Thank GOD I numbered them!!!
Wow, now I'm nervous that I'm behind! I'm an October 2nd bride and mine aren't going out until Friday of this week! Hope I'm not too far behind schedule...
@StephanieLulu: Well, I only sent mine out this early because my venue originally told me they needed the final count a month in advance - so I made my RSVP date August 25, so I had time to round up stragglers. NOW, my venue was sold and is under new management, and they don't need the info until 2 weeks before the date... but my invites were already printed. (Yeah, and the new management changed the name of the place too - grr!)
Otherwise, I probably wouldn't have sent them out quite this early.
Doing a desination so we sent the invites in June. Sent 15 invites... got 7 RSVPS. HOWEVER, ones that I haven't gotten include my parents, his parents, 3 of our siblings, my MOH, etc. We've gotten RSVPs back from most of our questionables :)
14 yeses
0 nos.
We're sending out our invites today. I think I might be a little behind...
We sent ours the second to last week of July.
Out of 74:
Yes - 22
No - 10
We invited a lot of people we knew probably weren't gonna come (Mr. G's family in England) but wanted to check/show that we wanted them there. We are expecting to have around 50 people.
Sending out invitations that early was not a good idea. Most of the yes responses are from my mom's friends. My friends have really been slacking in putting an envelope in a mailbox. 
We sent out Save the Dates, so it bought us some time. We are not sending out our invites until Sept 4.
out of 169 invited:
66 yes's
2 no's
@Twista: i dont think you are behind at all.. right on time.. i was a bit early due to my vacation...
We sent ours out super early as 80% of our guests are out of town (and 25% on the other side of the world) and we have to have final numbers by 2 September to our venue.
Brilliantly, we've got just about all the RSVPs in now -- we invited just over 100, including some we knew wouldn't be able to make it, and we're now at 82 with nearly all the RSVPs in, which is pretty much what we were hoping for.
[b]glasses[/b], we had the opposite experience -- my friends were great at RSVPing, an my parents' friends absolutely sucked, they were nearly the last ones! And we also found people RSVPing 'no' were much more likely to RSVP late rather than early.
We sent ours early because of a short B list.
139 people invited
77 yes
6 no
We're hoping for a solid 130...
We just mailed ours on Monday, haven't checked mail to see if we have received any rsvp's yet. we have invited 300 people, our venue holds 250...and we are hoping to stay below 200. We know some live out of state and won't be able to attend, pray we stay at no more than 250 :-D
My invites just went out yesterday (yay!), but I can't WAIT to get the responses back. I'm going out of town tonight through Monday, and I hope my first response rolls in while I'm gone (although that might still be too early for the first one... but I girl can dream, right?).
First update! Invites went out on Friday & Tuesday..people get their mail fast!
# invited - 250 (112 invitations)
Yes - 6
No - hopefully some soon!
Oh! I can't wait to get my first RSVP back. We sent our invites out on Monday! :) :)
sent invites out last Saturday for 103 people:
5 - yes ( 2 of whom are my parents)
0 - no
Sent my invites out a touch early for serveral reasons.
158 people invited, 146 expected.
So far 79 yes and 2 no.
Feeling pretty good about it!
My invites went out early for a number of reasons (they were done / early RSVP for the location etc...)
83 invites sent to ~130 guests on 7/13/2010
I have 64 yes responses and no, no's so far. Ack. I need some no responses!
Thank you for starting this! :)
I am getting married 10/2/10, invites were mailed 7/6 (my 31st bday! LOL!) We sent them early because it's destination for everyone except 7 people.
Deadline August 15th
146 invited (61 invitations-only 8 with mailed cards, everyone else was online rsvp)
35 confirmed guests
12 no's
I am REALLY hoping we come in under 75!
Invitations sent out last Monday...
154 Invited
27 Accepts
0 Declines
127 Pending
We're shooting for about 140, and will probably end up right around there.
I sent mine out mid July 8 weeks prior to rsvp deadline. So far i got 69 yes's and 6 no's. I'm shooting for 125.
Invited 181 people including 5 kids:
RSVP count so far
Yes: 85
No: 18
maybe: 1 (my 92 year old great uncle who said he is a maybe because he isn't sure if he will be feeling well for the trip or not)
I actually wasn't expecting so many no's!
WOW, RSVP's are coming in fast, and we just mailed our invites out. Between Friday & Saturday we have received
22-Yes's
0- No's
And some others have said they are coming, just need to mail their rsvp's in...so crazy. Feel bad, but kind of hoping for some 'No's'
Invitations went out third week of July with Sept. 1 due date for our 10/10 wedding.
Invited - 206
Attending - 45
Declined - 28
Awaiting RSVP - 135
Invitations were sent last friday. deadline is sept. 10th.
so far we have:
240 invited
10 yes's
0 no's
we're really hoping for 200ish.
i was impressed with the speediness of some of the replies! keep 'em coming!!
okay.. finally starting to get some no's!
169 invited. hoping for 150.
86 yes, 9 no.
and now there has been all sorts of family drama on my FI's side... i always heard stories from other people and thought, wow, thank god thats not me.. now we have no idea if something will go down or people we thought we were close to will even show.. and none of the issues have anything to do with us at all. awesome. oh well.
Wedding: 10-22
Invites sent: July 3
RSVP dealine: August 15
# invited: 165
Yes: 56
No: 17
Awaiting reply: 92 (Dear 92 people...you have 5 days...get a move on!)
Geez, I better get moving. Mine have been sitting here BEGGING to be mailed for weeks but I thought it was too soon? Obviously I haven't been paying attention...They're going in the mail tomorrow : )
@spicytulip: I'm getting married a week before you and just send my invitations last Thursday. I think you're right on time!
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