Offhand Remark Hurts Feelings: Film at 11

posted 2 years ago in Full Figured
Post # 2
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405 posts
Helper bee

“Back cleavage” is caused by wearing a dress that is ill fitting (usually too tight), not by being plus sized.  Honestly, I probably would have said something about “good thing I don’t have to worry about that.  Unfortunately, you have to wear that face everyday”.  She sounded like a bitch.

Post # 3
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5228 posts
Bee Keeper

mrswho:   It sounds like your friend has foot in mouth disease. I think the best thing you can do is make sure your have an awesome seamstress for alterations and look fabulous on your wedding day. 

Can we see a pic of the dress?

Post # 4
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2891 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

mrswho: yeah back cleavage is a thing, but it can be fixed with alterations. I’d just take her remark as not liking dresses that fit poorly. 

Your dress will fit great!

Post # 5
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2261 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

You should see my amazing back cleavage in my wedding gown! I ordered my dress the same size as the sample that was giving me that. Did I care? Nope! Aren’t alterations just amazing…. I didn’t care because one it is fixed, that won’t be an issue anymore

Don’t let your friend get to you, that dress isn’t made for you just yet, you still have to get it altered to fit your body and your curves. 

Post # 6
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4901 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Sounds like your “friend” is a little envious about something you’ve got going on.

Post # 8
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3016 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

Some people just don’t know how to act.

My SIL (and very good friend), after I tried on dresses, said something like “Yeah, I was amazed at how skinny they made you look!” Thanks, biatch.

Don’t let her spoil your mood. I’m sure you will look kick-ass in that dress and she will feel like a complete moron! (Or she won’t, b/c she’s a dumbass, not sure, lol)

Post # 9
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5228 posts
Bee Keeper

mrswho:  Beautiful dress! It will look great on a curvy bride 

Post # 10
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330 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

mrswho:  who seriously does say that! especially someone like a MOH. shes supposed to be supportive not a bitch. i’m sure the dress looks beautiful on you. don’t listen to her skank ass lol

Post # 11
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1676 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

mrswho:  eugh, rude

your dress is gorgeous

Post # 12
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1959 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

mrswho:  Love your dress! …but I’m completely biased as that was my dress too!  Great taste 😉  I’m sure you’ll look fabulous in it!

Post # 13
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1214 posts
Bumble bee

My daughter is quite tiny and she still had back cleavage.  The bridal salon told her that the lace fabric will stretch out a little while you wear it.  If it doesnt start out a little tight, it will end up too loose.  It was true.  By the end of the night her dress was definitely much looser.  They showed us how to smooth out the cleavage by running your finger from the middle out to the arms.  They will take care of you at your alterations and as long as you aren’t too uncomfortable, it will be fine.  You will look beautiful in that dress!

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