(Closed) oh bees, what a messy weekend: I fell off the "shut up" wagon!

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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261 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

No tips from me. I also have a big mouth and have spent all my downtime at work looking at the bee and other wedding related things.

On a brighter note, I have figured out ideas for my save the dates and have booked an appointment with a venue.  I’m bad. The SO knows all of this though. The ring is being appraised tomorrow, so hopefully I will get it after that, but probably not until after this weekend.

Post # 4
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132 posts
Blushing bee

Don’t let this other couple stress you out.

You know your SO is going to pop the question. It’s all just a matter of timing. Talking about all these wedding details shows your partner that you’re really excited for this next step in your life and now he knows you have some amazing ideas for your wedding πŸ˜‰

Maybe ask how he felt about your ideas for your wedding? He might have ideas too. And if he doesn’t want to talk about it that’s okay, just hop back onto the wagon and know that he’s probably too busy to think about wedding details because he’s trying to plan the most incredible proposal ever!

Post # 5
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Worker bee

I wish I could help but I’m just as bad as you are! Yesterday I found out that the chunk of money my BF was waiting for came in and him buying the ring we picked out is coming soon. And to top it off he asked my the exact date that my dad was coming to town because he ‘needed to talk to him about something’ o_O

Since seeing the ‘SHUT IT UP’ pack on her I have made a promise to myself that I wont bug the heck out of him with questions… yet here I am sitting on the couch looking at venues and pinning away on Pinterest. Like I said, I’m no betther than you are! lol

I say if you feel the urge to talk about anything come on here. We have to make sure that the guys don’t feel forced into doing it before they want to. GOOD LUCK!

Post # 6
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437 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

@badabing88:  omg, I started dying laughing when I read “not only did I fall off the wagon, but it ran me over on the way by”…I can just picture someone getting run over by a wagon…hahaha. 

It sounds to me like he welcomed the discussion πŸ™‚ Just make sure you chase the wagon and jump back on!!! You’re allowed to talk about it when he brings it up, IMHO πŸ™‚ Good luck!! Run fast! πŸ˜‰ 

Post # 8
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482 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@badabing88:  haha you’re too funny. It sounds like you’re still doing a great job and it definitely doesn’t sound like you’re ruining anything. It will happen soon, just go back to shutting up and it will be easier to wait πŸ™‚ Good luck!

Post # 9
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463 posts
Helper bee

Sounds like it didn’t bother him at all. Also sounds like you won’t have to wait too much longer!

I think it’s really cool that he has lots of ideas for the wedding. My boyfriend has some definite opinions when we talk about weddings too, and I love it. His stylish bachelor pad was one of the things that impressed me when we started going out, so I’m hoping he’ll want to use his good taste in service of wedding stuff.

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