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    MsHymanRoth    October 24, 2009   Boston

    wedding of 100 people. So basically we would have 100 people total at the wedding. I told my mom & dad and his mom & dad they could both have 50 ... guess what ... that means that there will be 200 people. OH MY GOD. I just thought of something. Fiance and I decided on an intimate ... :  wedding invited guests Icon Eek

    All of a sudden I'm having a freak out! I have to clarify this tomorrow with both inlaws and parents. Omg. Didn't think of that.

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    sparkle    November 2009  

    How far in your planning are you? Have you booked the venue and invited everyone? If you're not that far along, its fine...just get together and figure out the final guest list.

     
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    emileee       San Jose, CA

    Don't forget...even if you give each of them 25 invites, that means you and FI can't invite any of your own friends! 

     
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    LatteLove    June 19, 2009   Chicago/San Diego

    Dno't worry, not everyone will come, and you should have plenty of time to sit down with your parents and future in laws and work it all out!  Guest lists are always hard and time-consuming. You're not alone!

     
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    MoSnow    9/6/09   Colorado - Wyoming

    You'll be fine! Just get your list together and call the parents and let them know your goof up! Chances are they won't have the full 50 already.

     
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    Not everyone you invite will come, don't worry. Or have an A and B list, so that when your A people decline, you can invite your B people.

     
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    harmonyeee    May 8, 2009  

    if you dont have a date set, you still have plenty of time to make these kinds of changes. your family will understand the change. just remind them that you're still in the initial stages of planning and your math was a little off. they'll understand that they have less invites to contribute, and if they dont you can always site budget concerns.

     
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    KateMW    8.30.03   Birmingham

    You should probably wait until you have a venue booked and a date picked to firm up your guest list. You never know what the venue you finally choose will be able to hold or the price per person might dictate a different number.

     

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