- 8 years ago
- Wedding: September 2010
Hi – I have heard about this happening to friends and other Bees, so I am not sure why I am in shock about this. First of all we did not invite ANY children to the wedding and there are no kids in the wedding party etc. Our site is outside but a little fancy and my dad is paying for most of it. We have all made it clear that no kids are invited.
I received a note in the mail from my FI’s good, old friends wife (they are old frinds of the family/old neighbor growing up etc.). They are basically family. The note was addressed to be only. In it, the the wife goes on and on about how much she loves me/us, excited we are getting married. It was a very sweet note. Then inside the notecard was our RSVP card where she replied yes for: Mr and Mrs XXX and kid. I almost died! I feel like I was set up with that note and I am so confused why she didnt call and ask if kids are invited or address that in the note. I guess I really shouldnt be confused based on what I have heard on this board…Anyway, has anyone had to address this situation? I think FI might be the one who has to address this, but I can see him not thinking it is such a big deal as I do (of course). Help!