Post # 1
I know majority of you fellow bees have had a hint of some sort that there is a proposal in your future. Have any of you been completely in the dark on one? Like you might have a hope that your SO Will propose but have no evidence whatsoever and its extremely frustrating.
Post # 3
@katiecat08: Have you talked about marriage and kids but just no mention of rings or engagement?
Post # 4
We’ve talked about everything under the sun. He said I’ll know whenI know. Ugh one hint wouldn’t hurt.
Post # 5
How long have you two been together?
Post # 6
@katiecat08: Mine! He referred to engagement as “that hing that might happen some day in the distant future” two HOURS before he proposed!
Post # 7
@katiecat08: Any talk of timelines on the marriage thing? Which kinda extrapolates back to the engagement thing?
The first time I mentioned the word “timeline” to my BF he blew a gasket! I’d never heard the term but it was thrown around in every self help book out there about waiting for a proposal so I thought everybody talked about timelines. Once he managed to calm down and screw that blown gasket back on he dithered around about a timeline. I told him “that’s unacceptable”. Oops. Needless to say we don’t use that word anymore…..
Post # 8
How long have you been waiting for?
We’ve been together for a bit over 9 years and I have tried EVERYTHING under the sun for him to tell me WHEN!! I know it’s coming *eventually* but it would be nice to know when. When I get angry or sad about it, I tell him I deserve to know, especially since we live together, have a 9 yr relationship and everything is going so well. He just says “Sometime before next summer” -_-
It seems time is irrelevant to men…yet everything to women!
Post # 9
@katiecat08: I have had NO hints. I tried to chat about us picking out rings together…and I got this long winded response about how he will be the one asking for my Dad’s hand in marriage, then he will be selecting and buying the ring himself.
We’ve chatted about practical wedding dates (fall of 2015 or 2016), discussed the drink situation for our wedding (fancy wedding kegs with gift beer mug glasses and wine glasses), the location area for our venue that we want (mountain river wedding). He told me that I can pick the colors for our wedding, that I can go crazy on Pintrest creating inspiration boards and getting ideas for the wedding, etc, etc, etc.
BUT NO HINTS AS TO A PROPOSAL!!?!?!?!?!? <
my face when I think about it too much haha.
I just trust that we are talking about it, moving towards it…and it’ll happen when it’s supposed to. TRUST is the big thing here when the guy won’t talk about it.
Post # 10
@katiecat08: I find that really strange. DH and I talked about our future before we got engaged, including when we would want to get married. It’s the biggest decision of your life. You should be an active part of the discussion, not waiting aroud for him to decide.
Post # 11
Well, my SO has let out a few too many hints. It got to the point where he wanted me to help him plan the proposal. I already know when it will be, (during a long break from school) but I didn’t want every detail. Literally hours ago, I sat him down and told him that a surprise was important to me, and he won’t give me any hints anymore.
Post # 12
We had drafted the guest list together but never talked about a proposal or time line per se. I also knew I wanted to wear my grandmothers ering so that was taken out of the equation. Basically it was a surprise proposal in that DH didn’t know he was going to propose when he did. He knew I was getting the ring to be sized and when I got it back I planned a little romantic date to give him the ering to do with as he wished and whenever he wished. He dropped to his knee and asked me to marry him right then and there. 🙂