(Closed) Oh, those meddlesome ex-girlfriends…

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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661 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

My FI’s ex ruined him sexually. It took her a long time to come so she made him hold out. Now it takes him forever to come and I die of boredom as I am waiting for it to happen.

Post # 4
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218 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Ugh. Miss Crazy used to call SO whenever she was ill or hurt and wanted sympathy. Like when fell down the stairs & called him to tell him. She never called any other time to say hi or have a friendly chat. It was only when she had a sob story. It used to drive me nuts because she’s just such a lunatic. Luckily she stopped.

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@BelleFille:  wow i never bothered none of my exs i would be so embaressed to bother someone when there involved with someone else. now ive had my exs bother me and i hate that.

MOVINGE ON!!!! is what i always tell myself when the relationship is done!

Post # 6
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218 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@HisNightOwl2014:  Yeah, I know. I would NEVER do that. I would just be too embarrassed.

Post # 7
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Busy bee

My boyfriends ex is CRAZY. She cheated on him and they broke up…but weeks later (after he and I started dating) she wanted him back, moved less than a mile from my bf, texted him and begged for him back, got mad at him for dating me, etc. Over a year after they broke up, she still wasn’t over him – and she had been dating other people! Of course my bf didn’t want to be mean and never gave her the harsh reality check she needed (which almost brought an end to us, as I was more mad at him than her). In december they had to straighten some stuff out with belongings and she asked him if he was happy and said she hasn’t felt that way about anyone since him…UGH. She finally moved to the city last month…a year and a half later. To this day I loathe her and anything to do with her lol…complete lack of respect for others relationships (oh and we knew each other all through college)

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@BelleFille:  i feel you bellefille i could not do that i have way too much pride.

if someone doesn’t want to be with me as much as its hurt i run the other way i will not beg for LOVE that should come naturally.

Post # 9
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692 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

So glad FI never had a real gf….crazeeey girls…whew

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I love sharing these stories b/c before DH, I never dated anyone with a crazy ex.  His definitely makes up for all of them.

He dated her many years but wanted out.  He took a job overseas thinking she’d get the hint.  She thought they could make it work.  He moved, started casually dating a couple of women.  Ex bought a plane ticket to visit even after he told her NO.  She visited and he said it was weird and that she probably got the hint but obviously didn’t. 

I started dating him…she pursued him from afar.  He called her one last time telling her it was over…but didn’t say it was b/c of me.  He said she’d try even harder b/c she was able to break up a previous relationship (b/c of a lot of drama) and he stupidly went back to her. 

I moved in with him and his brother’s GF’s mom passed away.  I picked out flowers to send to the girl and we found out the ex went to the funeral (2 days) and was causing a scene with his parents…wanting to know WHY he broke up with her.  She also contacted him b/c she didn’t know why he didn’t add her name to the card. 

For the next 6 months, she would send him emails of songs that reminded her of him.  Her last email said she missed him…he never responded to any of them.  She became BFFs with brother’s (now ex) GF so she could keep tabs on him.  He went to visit family for the holidays and the girl mentioned it to the ex-GF.  Ex stayed at her house the entire time b/c DH and his brother had to go over to get some of the brother’s things…luckily the girls were out the night they went over there so he didn’t see her. 

It’s been a few years but she still has their pics on her myspace….she still uses it rather than FB and says they’re in a relationship.  She’s told mutual friends that she’s moving overseas to be with him and they are getting married one day.  Luckily, his friends know the truth and just ignore her….and apparently a few years ago, she started randomly telling people she went to HS with that she was actually married to him.  I guess she thinks if she says it long enough, it will happen. 

He always gets freaked out when we go back to his hometown (twice now) that we’ll run into her and she’ll cause a scene.  He has a great job opportunity back there but refuses to take it b/c of her even though he misses his family.

Post # 11
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Bumble Beekeeper

@OneOfTheseDaysAlice:  “(naturally ex’s are usually crazy..haha)”

I am assuming that you are someones ex and that most bees are someones ex- are you calling us crazy?

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

OneOfTheseDaysAlice I love it! 

My DH ran into his crazy ex a few weeks ago because of me…I wanted cherries and he went to the grocery store and she happened to be there….he said she was still crazy…so that made him feel better…she hadn’t changed and it just reinforced the fact that it was better in the long run that they didn’t end up together….

She never did anything to us personally, she just screwed him up…he was single for many years after they broke up, and I had to pay for all the damage she did to him, he wouldn’t even acknowledge we were boyfriend and girlfriend until we were 6 mths together…man she really was a doozie!

 

Post # 15
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

@texasbee:  wow, she needs a reality check.

@OneOfTheseDaysAlice:  that would be a great thank you note to send, only i would call it an engagement present.

exes are exes for a reason.

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