Post # 1
im going to a mexican bridal shower and since i have a tendency to wear the wrong thing/not know what to expect (as things are so different here from uk) i sent a message to a few wives/gfs of the friends of my Darling Husband who go to ALL events in that group
except seems i sent it to one woman who is not invited. and she pointed this out and left the fb conversation. she is long term gf of one of the fiances good friends so i just assumed she’d be going
so now i dont know if i should ignore it, apologise…do *something*. it was a massive list on the fb event and i didnt check it properly. and now i regret it. ach im brooding over this
Post # 3
@newname_99: Pretend you didn’t see! Unless the girl contacts you directly, don’t address it. It was an accident either way!
Post # 4
I wouldn’t even stress about it. Innocent mistake! Just keep quiet and let it be 🙂
Post # 5
Etiquette Snob here… lol
As much as you might want to apologize, I wouldn’t
Technically the oversight is yours (not checking the list thoroughly) … but the SNUB isn’t
The SNUB came from the Host of the Shower who decided not to invite her. Sad really. Got to wonder if the SNUB is being made by the Hostess or she is the “middle man” for the Bride on this one.
Anyhow… not yours to bother with, ask, make enquiries etc. Leave it alone.
An honest mistake on your part, as she typically is part of the social group.
If you say anything to her you’ll just make it worse, embarrass her futher. Just let it be.
Hope this helps,
Post # 6
ok thanks everybody! im just going to completely pretend nothing happened!