(Closed) Ok I need some honesty! ( kind of long..sorry)

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2011

so, why do you care whether she’s over him or not?  that’s her problem.  You’re with him.  He’s over her and has not given you reason to think that he’s not.  It seems to me like that’s her issue to deal with and none of your concern.  

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

The only thing that counts is that HE IS OVER HER.

No matter how she still feels, she did the adult thing and congratulated you on your engagement.

Don’t make a  mountain out of a molehill.

Post # 5
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389 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I guess I don’t understand whats bothering you here? How would you like her to act?

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Agree with PP. If she’s still got a thing for him, that’s sad for her, but it’s really not your problem. (Or even your business, unless she acts on those feelings.)

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I think it shouldn’t matter..it’s not like you want to be her friend, right? As long as your FI is over her (which is obvious), then let it go.

EDIT: I wanted to add, that she is the one choosing to act weird around the 2 of you..don’t sweat it.

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