(Closed) Ok, Ladies. I think it’s time…

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
1133 posts
Bumble bee

I’m really “doing the pact” but me and my SO are in the same boat. So I’ve kinda just vowed to myself to not bring it up lol and let him do his thing…because clearly it will happen. It’s just SO hard to imagine because it’s something I’ve dreamed about for so long. Hang in there girl! 🙂

Post # 5
475 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2015 - Backyard

I need to do this too! It’s hard because I’m just so excited about it, which I told him. I know a proposal is coming this year and he’s told me it will happen by the end of this summer, he said he has a plan in mind, the ring is picked out…but like yours, he is all about the surprise! He even told me he was upset that I knew it was coming in 2012…as though I would have any idea of which of the 365 days he would pick! lol. I also am a major planner so it’s been hard letting that go. My close friend just got engaged in December and is planning her wedding for Summer 2013 – the same time we plan to marry. I did slip up and tell him that this might change our plans for setting a date, and in my head was stressed for a bit about it. But in reality, he’ll propose when the mood is right, and I want it to be a surprise as well. As for wedding planning, it’ll come together. I’m just trying to let go of it and let him do his thing, I know it will be more meaningful that way and I would hate to ruin his proposal with stress and anxiety! So I need to get on this pact too. 🙂

Post # 6
1311 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I have to start doing something too. The talks about it only get us to stress and argue. My SO has had enough of hearing about it. He told me that 2012 is the year that it will happen and that’s it. He is planning a big surprise and wants it to be very memorable.

I on the other hand am one of those that needs to know everything, so this is really tough.

We just have to hang in there, but sometimes it really feels like torture LOL

Post # 7
56 posts
Worker bee

@ashleighxcult: You are my twin it sounds like. I am a major Type A personality and have to control everything. Long story short my Boyfriend or Best Friend and I have casually looked @ rings, talked about a timeline this year, and also been together 5 years. We do not live together though due to personal preference. 

I have been working out, focusing on work and doing things for myself and it feels great. I know he is getting a little nervouse but I have been very up front with him that he has until October and then I am out. I told him I am not going to be a terminal Girlfriend and he has plenty of time to get his #$%$ together. I know he wants to spend his life with me but I think he is also nervous about doing it. His family, my family and the both of us know it will eventually happen just waiting sucks!

Good luck to you!

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