- 8 years ago
- Wedding: July 2011
Ok control freak is harsh but I do get a little short of breath, panicky and sweaty if I give up control to someone else. That said, DH knows this (obviously) and has taken it upon himself to come up with projects for himself to do.
He is going to build us an arbor (LOVE IT! He is an aspiring carpenter). He is also going to build us a dining room table to use at the reception which I don’t love but it is important to him.
What else can I put him in charge of so he doesn’t feel left out but that I won’t hyperventilate about? FYI, I trust my mother implicitly. If she was in charge of organizing everything, I would breathe easy, but it is because she is also a control freak.
QUESTION 2: What can I put FMIL in charge of?
EDIT: After reading this, I come off a little bit worse than I truly am. I do like to be in control but I can yield it sometimes and I inted to the day of. I need to practice though so giving duties to family members throughout the process will be helpful.