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    MellowPossum    May 14, 2010  

    I just got my dress, not even 2 hours ago.  I went to a store that specialized in plus sizes and that I also had a 20% coupon off of.  The only issue is that uh.. its kinda plain.  I have body issues and feel like this dress really flatters me.  It looks better with the belt, a lot better, but I'm still missing the color.  I had a very small budget, about $500.00 with alterations and lucked out by paying less than 300 with the belt being a gift. Because of my budget, I originally was looking at colored dresses, and because I wanted something unique.  I've got this one but I keep going back and forth.  It's like ping-pong in my head.  Is it beatiful? yes, Will my fiance think its too plain? Maybe...

    What do you think, and what can I do to spice it up.  I also have a headband on but you can't tell it that much in the picture.

    Help me Hive! (please)

     
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    His Barista    September 4, 2010   Spokane, WA

    Did you post a picture? If so, I can't see it. However, have you thought about getting a colored sash instead of a belt?

     
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    bestbuddies    June 6, 2010   Chicago, Illinois

    picture picture!

     
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    MellowPossum    May 14, 2010  

    Oops.  Pic attached.

     
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    stahlkl    November 6, 2010   South Carolina/Clearwater, FL

    still don't see a pic...

     
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    First of all, what about colored shoes? That might make it feel totally special. Otherwise, what about a brooch? A colorful bolero or wrap? What about a colorful bouquet with it?

    Also, dye a crinoline!!! That way, you've got your dose of color, just peeking from underneath. Good luck!

     
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    MellowPossum    May 14, 2010  

    Can anyone tell me what I'm doing wrong or how to resize?

     
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    kirabee       Venice, CA

    Need to see a pic, but a colored sash you be beautiful - I love the look of a sash that ties aroung the waist with a bow in the back, going all the way down the the floor. Also, remember the jewelry you'll be wearing - a sparkly necklace or some huge dangly earrings can really spice things up, I think!

     
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    bestbuddies    June 6, 2010   Chicago, Illinois

    click the little icon next to the HTML thing on your comment toolbar. then you wont have to resize :D

     
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    Upload to flickr if you can and then copy and paste the link if you need to, that might make it easier

     
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    bestbuddies    June 6, 2010   Chicago, Illinois

    click the little icon by the HTML thing on your comment toolbar. that way you dont have to resize :D

     
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    MellowPossum    May 14, 2010  

    attempt # 2

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    bestbuddies    June 6, 2010   Chicago, Illinois

    oh! very pretty. your dress is kind of like mine. ok so i added a broach to my belt but it looks like your already has bling. what about a belero? what about dying your sash? colored shoes? somethign unique in your hair?

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    i think it's very pretty. if you have a blingie bracelet and some jewelry it would jazz it up a bit and still be within your budget (check claire's)

     
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    I see... Could you get it hemmed a little shorter and get a crinoline that's dyed to peek out from the bottom? That would jazz it up a ton, and bring in the color! Also, don't forget shoes or flowers... and what kind of veil are you going for? If you're going for a birdcage, consider having a brightly colored flower/brooch fascinator.

    And what about some statement jewelry--big pieces that really bring something to the dress?

    Good luck!

     
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    Tonya2010    September 11, 2010  

    I think that it is very pretty!! With the dress being more simple, it will give you the opportunity to dress it up with some awesome jewelry. I love it and think that it is very flattering on you! Feel good about it, it looks fab!

     
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    ing2foru    April 26, 2010   Oklahoma/Wedding in Vegas

    That is a beautiful dress.  I don't think it is plain at all.  I think you will feel better about it once you see it all together.  Maybe with a veil, some colored shoes & your flowers, BEAUTIFUL!

    We all have some 2nd thoughts about our dresses, so you aren't alone in your thoughts.  Don't worry, whatever you choose, you are going to look absoultly beautiful on your wedding day & your FI will love you.  He is marrying you, not the dress.

     
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    His Barista    September 4, 2010   Spokane, WA

    It is pretty. I agree with the PP's, colored shoes or crinoline. Or statement jewelry!

     
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    MellowPossum    May 14, 2010  

    Thanks so much guys.  My mom just caught me thinking about it and asked me if I was sure I loved it.  When I explained it all to her she brought out her jewelry and we went through.  My dad also just gave me an early graduation gift of a saphire so now i feel like I have the perfect jewelry... and that my dress is pretty.

     

    I am getting alterations because the dress is so long and I'm hoping pretty flowers will finish it off! Laughing

     
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    Tonya2010    September 11, 2010  

    =) Yay! It sounds like you are feeling much better now!!! You will be beautiful!

     
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    kirabee       Venice, CA

    What type of veil are you planning to wear? Maybe something with some crystals or sparkle to mimic the detail of the waistband?

     
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    o0olibelulao0o    April 14, 2012   Texas Hill Country

    I tihnk it looks gorgeous!  But you could definately add a flower (colored maybe?) to the belt, but what about also adding a wide ribbon under the belt to add a pop of color I think would really make it pop for minimal expense!

    Something like these (but with your belt over it)

    Ok, So I love by dress but... :  wedding Etsybelt1

    Ok, So I love by dress but... :  wedding Etsybelt2

    Ok, So I love by dress but... :  wedding Etsybelt3

     
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    JoesWifey    May 24, 2009   NYC/Wedding in Indiana

    I second the idea of a colorful bolero! One like this would go great with your sapphire

    http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=39510588&ref=sr_gallery_2&&ga_search_query=bolero&ga_search_type=&ga_page=5&includes[]=tags&includes[]=title

     
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    fanatic888    10/16/10   Cincinnati

    I don't think it's plain at all.  It has more bling than my dress.  I can't tel exactly what the embellishment looks like but you might consider pinning a simple white organza flower off to the side.  I really don't think you need much.

     
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    MellowPossum    May 14, 2010  

    I didn't think about a color belt under mine, that would definitely work and I love the bolero.  It is beautiful. 

    I'm falling more in love with it now that I have the bag hanging in my room.  I just keep staring at it and thinking that *I* am getting marred.

     
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    Lovebug333    July 17, 2010   BC, Canada

    Once it is altered and fits you perfectly it probably won't need anything...some fun shoes and blingy jewlery maybe?

     
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    kjpugs    March 20, 2010   Indianapolis, IN

    You could get a cute bolero on etsy- many vendors offer them in white OR colors. That would be a great way to add color and a little sass!!!!

    (ps your dress is VERY similar to mine! I love it!)

     
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    MrsK2be    November 15, 2008   Ohio

    I LOVE the belts that *ooolibelulaooo* posted!!!! i think one of those belts would absolutely transform that dress into a showcase piece!!

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    I LOVE KACEY!!! i am in talks with her right now getting a belt made for my dress!!

     

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