(Closed) Ok to have ONE RING as Wedding/Engagement Ring?!

posted 7 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

I don’t see any problems with having only one ring for both the engagement ring and the wedding ring, especially since both you and your FI agree on this and a little more bling is a nice thing πŸ™‚

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2012

If I were the type of person who disliked jewelry, I would get a plain band (or maybe with some low-profile set diamonds in it) for my wedding ring and pretty much wear only that after getting married.

That said, there is nothing wrong with just using your engagement ring!

Post # 5
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Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I agree that it would be fine to use only one ring.  Whatever you are comfortable with!

Also, I realize this shows how big of a nerd I am, but your post made me think of LOTR, and I honestly thought you were using ‘the one ring’ as your ring.  Which, btw, would kick ass.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee

Sure, why not? I don’t see any problem with it! My step mom and dad have been married for 20 years and she has always just worn one ring. Her first ring was a horrible cluster ring, but her second upgrade ring is a 5 carat fancy round cut and she said she would feel to austintatious with a diamond band to go with it.

if you want just a band, or just an “engagement ring” that’s totally up to you!

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

One ring to rule them all…

Sorry, my geek is showing. Embarassed

I don’t see anything wrong with it if jewelry bothers you so much. I never thought I’d get used to wearing a ring full time, and it was a little weird for the first few days but I did get used to it and now my hand feels weird when I take the ring off.

I also agree with the previous poster about just wearing a very simple band after the wedding. Not everyone chooses to wear both rings.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

It isn’t too common but it does happen. Another thing you could do if you are comfortabe with it is getting a super thin white gold wedding band. The make them as thing as 1 mm and you could get that. I am getting a 1 mm and then sautering it on to my e-ring so it feels like 1 ring. (I am doing it because I need a contoured band to fit on my e-ring and I don’t want it moving around.) But, if you wanted to do that so you technically had two rings but in reality it was one. Also, I have seen so many married women who don’t wear their rings at all I don’t think you would be crazy for just going that route! It isn’t the ring that makes your marriage. It is just a symbol of it.

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I was thinking of updating my solitaire to a halo for the wedding, just to make it a bit different from the way it is now. I’m not real crazy about getting a second band either and my FI always nags because I tend to forget to put on the one I already have.

Post # 14
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I’m only going to have one ring. I’m not a big jewelry person either. We picked out a band with saphires and diamonds. I have gotten some strange comments and looks when people ask to see my engagement ring and I show off the band, but I just shrug it off. I’ve also gotten compliments- the best being “It’s so you.” I’m not sure what I’m going to do during the ceremony yet since I’m already wearing the band. I’ll probably take it off prior to the wedding to get it cleaned and then wait to put it back on until we exchange bands.

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

You can do it however you and your FI like.  We decided not to have engagement rings at all, and simply to exchange plain gold bands at the ceremony.

Post # 16
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I am thinking of possibly just wearing my engagement ring as both the engagement/wedding ring and I know a few girls who have done and do this πŸ™‚

It’s not common, but that doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with it.

In all instances, the engagement rings were used in the wedding ceremony – and no, I don’t think anyone cares πŸ™‚

Some rings are not suited to wearing with a wedder, some people don’t like the feeling of two rings swinging around and others just want something more minimal. I say just go with what you like πŸ™‚

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