- 10 years ago
a couple of scenarious have occurred recently as me and my fiance are trying to work out our guest list…
1. girl from high school (and church) who’s more of my brother’s friend as well as being the same age as him, just moved to nyc (where i live now) for her residency. the two of us haven’t kept in touch, and i would not have planned on inviting her, but now that she’s right here i feel rude if i don’t.
2. girl who’ve i’ve completely lost touch with just started emailing me again wanting to hang out. she doesn’t know i’m engaged and i feel would expect to be invited to the wedding once she finds out..
3. two friends from highschool that i’ve lost touch with since moving to nyc are close friends with some family friends of mine that are definitely getting invited. one of them already feels snubbed that she didn’t get an invite (even though i haven’t even made the invitations yet~! wedding’s in march~!)…
what do i do? my reception space is actually already too tight that i’ve already cut my coworkers off of the list. i feel so bad that i haven’t even responded to #1 & 2’s emails to reconnect with me since i’m not sure what to do. #1 & 2 are both in nyc and friends from #3 are not (but i think would fly to nyc if invited). these are only 3 scenarios..but unfortunately, there are more very similar ones. it’s due to the fact that i’ve lost touch with some friends from home and from college when i moved to nyc.