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    mandaleni23    September 6, 2009  

    I have never been a church go-er and I have no clue how to address an authority of the church.

     Our officiant is a Doctor of Ministry and he doesn't work for a church (he is the Chaplain for a local company)--what do I call him on the programs, his invitation, place card for the reception, etc.??  

     Worst case scenario I will ask him what he prefers...

     (I would just rather not have to ask! OMG How do you address a D.Min.? :  wedding officiant addresses etiquite Icon Wink)

    Thank you!

     
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    dorsay    August 2009  

    Wikipedia is completely unhelpful http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Doctor_of_Ministry le sigh.  Do you have a meeting with him in his office? You could check his walls? Did he introduce himself to you with a title?  I don't think it would be too embarrassing to ask him,  you could just say you're creating the program and want to be sure you address him properly and with the utmost respect. :) good luck!

     
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    corn    September 8, 2007   Boston, MA

    The question isn't if he is currently working for a church, but rather if he has been ordained.  If yes, than he would be Reverend Lastname...or Pastor Lastname...if he isn't than he wouldn't have the title...but I would be safe and go ahead and ask him.

     
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    musingsfromhere    12 July 2008   Canada

    S/he might go by "rev. x" or "pastor x", but "formally"--like, Emily Post formal--a D. Min is a Dr.  If s/he is also ordained in a tradition that uses "reverend", the most correct (again, Emily Post correct!) would be "The Rev. Dr. NN"--for any situation where you would call someone else Mr. or Dr. (in writing, at least).

    But you can always ask!  I know several D. Mins who usually goes by their first names.

     
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    CellarDoor    July 30, 2009  

    In my experience the Drs. of Ministry I've known have gone by "Reverend", but definitely ask! He or she may have a different preference than is standard (although I have a sneaking suspicion that they'd forgive you anyway).

     
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    Serya    October 7, 2011   Frederick, MD

    It's probably best to just ask how he prefers being addressed. Personally I prefer just going by my name but I am a Rev. Dr. - or to be fully formal - The Revererend Doctor Serya Thus-n-Such. It can get rather confusing!

     
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    ES123    April 25, 2009   Laurel, MD

    I think your best bet is to just call and say "hey, we're working on the programs and want to know how you'd like your name and title to appear".

     

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