Post # 1
I won’t even go into detail in how horrid this place is. My boss goes through all my papers and desk any time he wants. This is the second time I’ve come to work and a stack of paperwork is missing. I ask if he took it and he said yes. I asked where he put it and yet again….he’s accidentally thrown out huge stacks of my paperwork! Everything from March until present! I am so sick of this bs. He screams profanities and has hissy fits daily. Yesterday he punched a box while yelling like a little bitch. HR doesn’t care. FI doesn’t care to get a better job or help contribute to the household equally so I’m stuck here till I can find something that pays as much 🙁 between this place and taking care of a household basically single handedly, it’s taking a toll on my health.
Tell me your horrible boss stories.
Post # 2
JazzyGirl85: I’m mostly concerned with how your FI doesn’t contribute to the household…. that’s not okay. Why doesn’t he help out?
Post # 3
Wait- I’m more concerned about the FI thing than the boss (who sounds like an asshole). Is your FI just in the type of job that doesn’t pay welL, but he’s a hard worker/enjoys it, or is he just a bit of a Bum? If it’s the former, then I think you might need to rethink your position on the matter- there was a while when I made significantly more than FI but he was in an entry-level job and contributed what we thought was fair. Now he makes more than me and he contributes more than I do. If your FI is just a bum – then you need to have a conversation about the matter, and you need to really think if that’s the type of guy you want to marry, because a marriage certificate wing change anything.
Post # 4
StL.Ashley: he LOOOOOVES his job and it drives me insane!!! He busts his ass so hard and for what?! He’s been working the last two months straight!! And when he’s not, he works every weekend. I told him since he’s the hardest worker, he needs to tell his boss he needs the weekends off! The New kid was given the weekends off!! Then when he’s home, he calls his coworkers like he’s their friggin boss instead of spending time with me. Ugh!
Post # 5
Document all of his awful behavior. Times, dates, everything. Once it gets to the breaking point, send your documentation to HR. If HR does nothing, send it to his boss or his boss’s boss.
Post # 6
MRSsrm85: sadly, his boss is the owner who behaves on the same way! People seriously would not believe the shit that goes on at my work and how people are treated. I’d love to leave but I can’t find anything (get an interview) that would pay the bills and allow me to save. I am so jealous of my friends who get to go what they want bc their husband is the breadwinner.
Post # 7
Agree with MRSsrm85! Document everything and go to HR consistently. If HR won’t do anything, you can threaten to sue for hostile work environment. Here’s more info on that: http://humanresources.about.com/od/workplace-discrimination/g/hostile-work-environment.htm
Post # 8
Wow your boss sounds just awful 🙁 I really hope you catch a break and find a new job soon!