Post # 1
the wedding is next summer! i’m already nervous. Not having seconds thoughts exactly, but it hit me yesterday that all I’ve been thinking about is plannng the wedding. I haven’t been thinking much about the marriage that comes after!!
I’ve explained my thoughts/feelings more in my blog:
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These feelings are normal, right? I mean, marrying someone is a BIG deal!
Post # 3
Personally, I think it is good you are thinking of the days after. But really, why are you so nervous right now? I know its hard, I had to be reminded to breathe the first few months after my engagement. And even now, I get glassy eyed at all the wedding decisions – but thats about the wedding. The Marriage, the Man… no 2nd thoughts. If we weren’t getting married, I would still be with him, I would still love him until the end of time. So, I think of this as a celebration of our love. And the only stress I feel has to do with matching or not matching shades of Blue. Enjoy the process, remember to get away from the wedding frenze. And at some family or friend events, make a choice to not talk about the wedding details and focus on the man, and your love for each other. Congrats.
Post # 4
When we first started planning the wedding i was so excited, the ring, the dress, the flowers, the table decorations etc, etc, etc,
But it was only last month when we actually went to register our intent to marry with the registrar that it hit me full in the face….
Up untill then it was only a wedding, now it has become so real, thinking about the marriage. It makes me feel all warm and cosy though….I absolutely cant wait to be his bride AND his wife.
Post # 5
@Vintage-me: Congrats 🙂 I wish my wedding was already here and over with. Not because I’m stressed but because I am just So EXCITED. I can’t wait to say the vows to each other.
Post # 6
I understand. I have been feeling the exact same way; in the midst of all of the planning, I have realized – I already feel married. I have someone by my side day in and day out – who loves me. I have this wonderful man that I have been blessed with and he is here with me every step of this interesting journey.
It makes all of the planning seem a little less stressful, because at the end of the day he is already here with me.