(Closed) OMG my BM's and family are driving me nuts over shoes! RANT!

posted 5 years ago in Shoes
Post # 4
4803 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Honestly, I’d probably let it go as long as the shoes they pick are yellow. I was really tempted to say something when I asked my BMs to get silver shoes and two of them decided on sparkly stripper looking heels, they didn’t fit my look at all either – but in the end it really isn’t one of those things that mattered the day of, or now looking back on it. 

Post # 5
323 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Personally, I’d just pay for them myself and buy them in their size, if I wanted something that specific. 

Post # 6
424 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@Wonderstruck:  +1

In the scheme of things, shoes are really not a detail your guests will remember.

But I totally sympathize with how you’re feeling.

Post # 8
11752 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

what is your Bridesmaid or Best Man dress? I just can’t imagine dyeables being too fancy for a typical Bridesmaid or Best Man dress, unless it was a sun dress or something.

Post # 9
12250 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

What a mess! Sorry you’re dealing with this…


Post # 10
1478 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013 - Creek club at ion, SC

Uhh will I compromise work? It seems your major issue is with dyables and they want really high one soooo ….you can have them as high as you want but they have to be yellow and not dyeable. Find those, confirm it with me and im all for it…. or something along those lines. With regards to sinking into the grass, really not a problem anymore 



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