- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2013
okay so we are having an outdoor venue, in may here in Phoenix, we are doing our VR at the same place we originally got married at 18 years (may 8th) ago. But we aren’t having our VR for 2 years (May 11th, 2013)…. anyhow the park is big and spacious etc… kind of tropical. Wil lhave a rustic, tropical, elegantish, DIY wedding. I see the vision in my head and hope I can execute what I am seeing.
Well here is my dream…
We drive like we are going to the park, but then hit a hard left to a hotel (there is no hotel in the park)… i am checking my make up and hair in the mirror, i look hot, and I am thinner. so we get to this hotel and I walk in to check things out… everyone was there already.
First off, why was my EX mother in law there?
There was a photgrapher (who I am not hiring a pro, going to depend on friends for this) taking tons of pictures of dumb things. not really dumb, but people I barely know. I walk in and he totally ignores me. And its not really dumb either because my son is in a band, and so it was like he was famous by then or something and everyone wanted pictures with him so he was walking around and everyone is like “Zac come over can we have a picture taken with you” and i wanted to yell “i’m the bride dammit i’m the bride”
the room is filled with tiny bistro tables with like 10 people squeezed around them. there were maybe a dozen. Barely a Dance floor.
I look up at the decorations, there was fabric on the walls in blue (one of my colors) but it had tiny dradles and stars of David (I am not jewish), and when it was lit up it looked hot pink! NOT my color I guess the hotel figured it was Blue so it was good enough cuz he was trying to sell me on it when I went to complain LOL
the “buffet” consisted of 3 mexican dishes… thats it, no sides, nothing else. And they were bringing in the food like an hour too early. Because the ceremony hadn’t started yet. So why were my guests there? this is like an HOUR before my ceremony. I don’t care if people show up early to my ceremony but I certainly don’t want the food sitting there to be all gone for all these people, which were close to 100 yes at like a dozen tiny bistro tables, there wasn’t even a sweetheart table! LOL
come to think of it, i dont think there were cakes, place settings, or centerpieces either, I dont remember seeing them. And definitely NO BAR:( because I wanted a mimosa and there was no bar anywhere to be found… not anywhere in the Hotel, or anything.
then to top it off I look down and realize i am wearing this pink terry slip on thing I wear when I get out of the shower, i don’t have a dress on! nor do I even have a dress!!!!!
so I was going to a bridal consignment shop to buy a dress, and then I woke up.
but this was EVERYTHING I do NOT want my wedding to be! LOL
Perhaps its because my Ex mother in law was there? I don’t know, but we aren’t on bad terms and whenever we see eachother we hug and its been about 20 years since herson and I got divorced. But we see eachother due to my daughter. And she is NOT a bitter woman, but I would NEVER Invite her to my VR with my new husband. LOL
LOL its so funny.
so what dreams have you had? i mean my VR aint for 2 years LOL I’m still cracking up! Hoping I have more!
what has dreams have you had? What was your FIRST wedding dream?