(Closed) OMG Personal Bubble!

posted 6 years ago in The Lounge
  • poll: Which best describes your personal space bubble?
    Spacious, except in intimate moments. : (22 votes)
    27 %
    Flexible, I let other people decide how close to get, and don't really care. : (17 votes)
    21 %
    Bubble in a Bubble, I let some people very close, but most people not. : (40 votes)
    49 %
    What bubble? WTF are you talking about? And why are you inching away from me?? : (2 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    625 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I def. have a bubble, but I’ve come to realize that some people come by their non-existant bubbles through culture. I dont mean to make generalizations, but I notice that many Italians and Greeks really do not seem to have a bubble and like to stand as close as possible, and they dont seem to see anything wrong with it. Sometimes I will try to back up a little, but sometimes I will just grin and bear it if I’m trying to make a good impression or something. 

    Post # 4
    Member
    3369 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2011

    Ohhhh…. personal space.  Yup.  I’m sensitive to this, too.  I find myself needing to take a step back when talking with people.  There’s got to be a Seinfield episode about this!

     

    Post # 5
    Member
    1716 posts
    Bumble bee

    I have been known to literally push people out of my bubble.

    Unless you are a friend of mine, dont get with in 2 feet of me. I seriously don’t like it.

    Though standing in queue does not bother me until I can hear them breathing.

    Post # 6
    Member
    1360 posts
    Bumble bee

    Oh, I definitely hate people getting too close to me. Or even talking to me, really, when I’m clearly busy doing something. Space, space, space. The only person I let near me is FI…and sometimes I even want space from him. Since I live in the South, a lot of people think hugging/hand-shaking/etc is perfectly normal from a perfect stranger….but NO. It. Is. Not. Okay. Ever.

    Post # 7
    Member
    2832 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    What really pisses me off is when I go to the market or bank. The person behind me feels the need to be close enough to sniff my hair! Get away from me person I don’t know!

    Post # 8
    Hostess
    1427 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    OMG i’m the same way!! We have open office seating so no cubes and I HATE it when people cut really close behind me when they’re walking by. Having a reflective picture frame and pushing my chair back while getting up has gotten a few to get the point….

    I tend to turn and use my chair to help block people and use it to nudge people behind a few inches… Aka push chair farther back and sit on the edge.

     

    Post # 9
    Member
    341 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I totally have a bubble!!  I’m quiet though, so you’ll just see me like, inching backwards and creeping away if someone’s too close….lol

    Post # 11
    Member
    4606 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    I am a fan of my own personal space. I want very few people to be near me and I’m only ok with FH and my family. I don’t really like being super close to my friends. Being at the store drives me nuts. A few nights ago I was waiting in line and this girl kept stepping closer and closer to me until I thought if I stepped back an inch I might step on her. Finally I asked her if there was a reason she kept moving closer seeing as the line wasn’t moving. She looked at me like I was nuts, but I don’t want to feel the breath of the person behind me.

    Post # 12
    Member
    5243 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I hate when people get too close to me! The worst is when you are in a lineup and you move an inch and the person is right behind you..its like buddy I’m moving up to get further from you not because the line is moving!!!!

    Post # 13
    Member
    5243 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    @SouthernGirl:  LOL I totally didnt even realize I wrote the same situation as you! I guess there are many people who hate this as much as I do!

    Post # 14
    Member
    1231 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    OMG!  Just recently this girl started working in our department!  She literally started out petting me, touching my back, hair, etc.  One day she came up and squeezed me!  I do not want ppl touching me, not a touchy person.  My bubble is huge.  I said to her You are a touch feely person huh?  She said yeah get used to it.  I told her I am NOT!  She just laughed.  My husband doesn’t even touch me that much in a day.  WEIRD and Im not happy!!!! She needs to go away

    Post # 16
    Member
    530 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2012 - Hacienda los Agaves

    I’m short to so it bothers me to stand next to tall people on intimate moments I can be toucing with the other person and it’s ok but even qhen walking on the street I’m pretty good at the don’t touch me dance.

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