Post # 1
It’s gotten to the point where we’re fighting over everything. We just tried to edit the Excel spreadsheet guestlist and we got into a tiff about that because I know that our RSVP website only accepts the spreadsheet formatted in a particular way, and he wanted it another way because of reason XYZ. OMG.
Please tell me that I am not going to go crazy about this whole thing. It’s a wonder if we even make it to our wedding date.
Post # 3
HUGS! I totally empathize with you. I was married Sept 2011, and right around this time last year, I was starting to cry weekly about something or another. It was just too much, planning wise! You’ll get there, and everything will be okay. But until then, that’s what weddingbee is for! If any of us can help make it any easier, just let us know! Particularly married bees like myself, who are still lurking the board looking to lend a hand! 🙂
Post # 4
Hey date twin. Hugs! We’re totally at that crazy stressful time. Could you have two tabs of a spreadsheet that link to each other – one in your format, and one in his? A lot of work but it might make you both happy and keep the peace.
I have a feeling it’s only going to get crazier. I’m bracing myself.
Post # 5
Take a deep breath. Everything will be okay. See if you can give yourselves just one night where you give yourselves a break from wedding stuff and remember why you’re dying to marry each other in a couple of months!
Post # 6
Thanks ladies! What with the stress of planning from afar, and the fact that we’re looking for a house too, we’re going crazy! He’s so tired of wedding planning stuff that he refuses to look at anything wedding related anymore. He complains about all this planning stuff, but I tell him that if he doesn’t want to plan, then it’s his job to field all the problems and errors that may come up! Of course, he doesn’t like that either.
Ok, I am going to quit complaining because I’m sure it’ll be just fine. Or we’ll get a hurricane that day or something, LOL.
Post # 7
@Fran…. UGH! I’m with you!
Fiance and I argue at lot about the details, that he originally didn’t care to know about.
And it just gets me a fit, cause I want him to like what I’ve planned.
I know part of the problem is me…cause I’ve been hard core wedding for about 3 weeks now, trying to get out the invitations.
So Sunday, I did nothing but clean the house. Top to bottom. And since then, I pre-plan all wedding events with him. He’s been really great so far.
Tonight is Date Nite…no wedding talk and no phones! Whohoo!
Post # 8
Oh no. I figure the closer to the wedding date the more stress but so far fi and I have not had many wedding tiffs. Hang in there… it’ll all come together and be over soon.