Post # 1
Ok Ladies, I wnet shoe shopping last week to find my wedding shoes long story I have been looking for months for the perfect shoes and everyone knows this because YES I have told anyone who would listen. So last week my future sis in law and who is alos a bridesmaid went with me to Nordstroms to find me a bra but long in behold I found my shoes..the tears came and more tears came I was soo happy.
Ok, she comes over today for the superbowl and guess what she shows me…
YUP!! she purchased the same shoes I have to wear as a bride. I am so mad hurt I dont know what I am feeling. I asked her why did she buy them she said oh I feel in love with them also and then replied Dont worry nobody will know they really dont pay attention to anyone shoes.
Post # 3
is going to wear them to the wedding?
Post # 4
Oh, I am sorry, some people just don’t think.
Post # 6
Yeh, if she isn’t wearing them at the wedding, then it isn’t a big deal. This is a job for… Uniform Shoes Man!! 🙂
Post # 7
@KevinsWife: oh no!! I think you need to tell your FI that you are really uncomfortable with the situation and ask him to talk to her. She needs to return her shoes!! That’s not okay! IT’S YOUR DAY!!
Post # 8
Did she buy them to wear in the wedding or just for everyday use? The everyday thing wouldn’t bother me, but it will look funny if her shoes match yours in the wedding photos :(.
Post # 9
I would just ask that she doesnt wear them to the wedding.
Post # 10
Wait? She brought the same pair of shoes to wear to the wedding? If so, I would just explain to her that you want your shoes to be unique OR you can have all of the BMs wear the same shoe…and make that shoe different from yours.
Post # 11
- Wedding: August 2010 - Ocean View Villas/Jasmine Seafood Restaurant
Ooo that’s pretty inconsiderate. do you feel comfortable asking her not to wear them to the wedding?
Post # 12
Ummm….yikes. If she had randomly found and bought the same shoes it wouldn’t mean anything but she was WITH YOU when you found them! Is she wanting to wear them to the wedding!?
Post # 13
YES she is wearing them in the wedding , my bridesmaid dresses are long and I asked everyone to wear sandals with rhinestones with a heel, I dont know what to do, should I just change my shoes but it took me a long time am I being unrealistic or just a bridezilla
Post # 14
Yes she is wearing them with her bridesmaid dress 🙁
Post # 15
oh no! yikes! you need to talk to her…
Post # 16
Well, that’s pretty shitty of her. Depending on your relationship, you could ask her to exchange the shoes. On the other hand, since the BM dresses are long, maybe no one will see their feet (or your feet?) anyway.