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On Accident vs. By Accident

posted 2 years ago in The Lounge
  • poll: Which do you use?
    By accident : (41 votes)
    47 %
    On accident : (16 votes)
    18 %
    Accidentally : (27 votes)
    31 %
    Other (please explain below) : (3 votes)
    3 %
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    MissDoodles    2011   Bronx, NY

    I've noticed here on the boards and also on tv that people use "on accident" a lot.  (For anywone who watches General Hospital, Lulu says its ALL the time and it drives me crazy! lol.) I've grown up always using and hearing "by accident" so on accident just sounds so weird and wrong to me.  I was curious if it was maybe a regional thing, so I looked it up and came across this:

    http://grammar.quickanddirtytips.com/on-accident-versus-by-accident.aspx

    So ladies, which do you prefer?  What's influenced your choice?

     
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    sloth    May 14, 2011   Philadelphia, PA

    By.

     
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    HoneyBear    March 17, 2012   Texas/ Isla Mujeres

    lol I have never thought about it before! 

    If its grammatically correct, Im all about it! lol

     
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    MrsSl82be    October 24, 2009  

    I use by accident and accidentally, on accident sounds weird to me

     
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    Selene221    October 31, 2012  

    By or accidentally. I was one of the few who stayed awake in English class when I was younger.

     
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    Rosie Girl    September 18, 2010   Montana

    I say on!

     
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    Bamboo    June 2010   Midwest

    I say accidentally I think, but I know I say "on accident" too. Truthfully this doesn't really bother me. The whole "on purpose" "on accident" hypothesis seems like a possibility I guess. I *think* people here say accidentally or "on accident".

     
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    mouse    September 11, 2009   Austin, TX

    I think I say "on."  I'm from rural East Texas, so a lot of things I say are regional.

     
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    Bamboo    June 2010   Midwest

    btw I don't think this has anything to do with who has better grammar than whom. Language evolves constantly and regionalism comes into play as well.

     
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    Boston Bee      

    I say "by accident." My bf says "on accident" and I always call him out on it.

     
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    Sulli301    June 26, 2010   Michigan

    all? haha I usually say "accidently" but I don't know about the other two options...I am going to have to listen and watch myself (and others around me) and see! 

     
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    His Barista    September 4, 2010   Spokane, WA

    Um...I use whatever I end up using! I think I've actually used all 3! lol.

     
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    Melissabegins    December 12, 2009  

    by accident.

    One time i was told that it was ridiculous that i asked someone if they wanted to "have a catch" instead of play catch. Maybe it's a PA thing?

     
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    OttawaBride2011    May 21, 2011   Ottawa, Ontario

    I've never ever heard "on accident" before!!

     
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    DWBride    June 30, 2010   Montego Bay, Jamaica

    I say on accident - I had to say all of them in a sentance just to figure out how I say it:) Maybe's it's regional - I'm from the midwest.

     
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    otb    December 31, 2009   Chicago, IL

    I say all three depending on the situation.  I guess I'm weird like that!  I know I have definitely said both before, and I don't know if it really depends on the situation or just whatever comes out of my mouth!

     
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    Mrs. DG    July 18, 2009   Seattle/Tahoe

    How about "close the light" vs. "turn off the light"?  That one used to drive my parents bonkers, so now out of rebellion I still always say "Close the light".  It drives my partner bonkers now.  I can't even stop it! (and I think it's funny, even if it's wrong :)

     
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    Oooh. I say either... I don't know why!

    And I have heard people say close the light and it drives me bonkers too, DG! Lol.

     
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    OttawaBride2011    May 21, 2011   Ottawa, Ontario

    @Mrs. DG - That would be right in french :) A lot of the french people I know say it like that in english since it's the direct translation!

     
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    Mrs. DG    July 18, 2009   Seattle/Tahoe

    Ah, so I'm sophisticated!!!  Awesome Ottawa! "ferme la lumiere", right?

     
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    MightySapphire      

    Um...I say unintentionally.  I guess I really am weird!

     
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    MrsK2be    November 15, 2008   Ohio

    I say accidentally because I was raised by a bunch of grammar snobs :)

     
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    OttawaBride2011    May 21, 2011   Ottawa, Ontario

    @Mrs. DG - Yep!! Hehe.

     
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    veganglam    January 5, 2013   Philadelphia; Wedding in NYC

    i always say "accidentally" or, very occasionally, "by accident".

    Melissabegins: what exactly were you describing as a "PA thing"?  i'm from PA and have relatives in central (redneck PA), Pittsburgh, the northern coal regions, my homeland is south-central (capitol area) PA, and i'm in Philadelphia for school.  this has taught me that there is no such thing as a linguistically/grammatically "PA thing", haha.  the grammar, phrases, and accents in each region are SO different, it's amazing! lol

     

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