(Closed) On again, Off again…

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
10218 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

ahh sweetheart, the market really sucks right now ((HUGS)) let me tell ya, we’re >>here<< does he know that none of the materialistic things are important to you when it comes to being his wife?  have you set a time frame or date where you want to be married?  it sounds like he wants to be able to support you or at least have a certain amount in his savings account before you are married so that if anything happens again, he’ll be able to be the “provider”.  i am srue that everything will work out, it just sounds like he’s trying to fiscally get back on track.

Post # 4
Member
368 posts
Helper bee

Terra – ((HIVE HUGS!)) Is he the person you want to be with the rest of your life? Is he your best friend and the LOVE of your LIFE? If so, try to focus on the positives of your relationship – YOU ARE TOGETHER!! Most girls don’t have that!! I know, especially on a wedding website, it can be SO frustraing to not join in the engagement stories and planning… but if it’s meant to be, it will be!! 🙂  We support you, no matter what!!

Post # 6
Member
2408 posts
Buzzing bee

haha, terrawellness, i totally understand. it doesn’t help when people tell us, “well if you want to be together and you know you do, why not just get married now?” because it’s just not that easy, yo. but it’s hard to remain calm when all you want to do is start the rest of your life with that one right person [exactly like when harry met sally!]. but you’ve come to the right place, with many likeminded folks who can help make the waiting just a tad bit more bearable 🙂

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