(Closed) One Broken Hearted Bee needing support

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
14498 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Um, WOW!  You have just been through a whooole lot.  I think that you def did the right thing in leaving and I am really sorry that he kept that from you.  I am also happy that it all lead you to a good man who just may be your prince.  Wow, just Wow.

Post # 4
5118 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

*Hugs* You have gone through a very tough and trying time. I am glad that you’ve sought counseling, this is a very heavy thing to carry with you, especially when your family and his are upset about the broken engagement when they don’t know the full details. Congratulations on finding a new love in your life, but please be sure to take care and make sure that you’re fully comfortable again.

And I know that you’ve found a counselor who believes you shouldn’t report this, but I’m not sure I feel the same. It’s a very personal choice and it’s your personal situation, not mine, but I do know that kids that young can remember things. And I also know that sometimes, they are not the only child. I wish you all the best in whatever you choose to do, and I think you are a strong person for doing what you feel is right in leaving your ex-FI even when you’re getting backlash from friends/family. 

Post # 5
2114 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012


I am glad you were able to find peace and happiness – all the best.

Post # 6
148 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’m sure that it is going to be difficult when your scheduled wedding day comes, but I hope you find support through the people closest to you. With such a horrible experience and broken heart, I’m glad you sought help and are doing better. You deserve to be happy, too

Post # 8
7293 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Sending lots of love and prayers. 

You are not alone in your choice and would have done the same. I admire you greatly!

Stay strong and keep moving on!

Post # 9
1679 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’m amazed by how you’ve come through such a horrible time. Hugs to you. Welcome back to the Bee. 🙂

Post # 10
2522 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Whoa.  Ugh, I can’t imagine being in that situation.  I would just suggest taking it slow with your current boyfriend, maybe a longer engagement?  I feel like I would need a long period of time to come out of a relationship that serious.  Good luck!

Post # 13
2522 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@RobotBabooshka:  I really respect that.  My Fiance was there for me when I had some pretty bad mental health issues, he was a friend at the time and it developed into something more serious.  Knowing that he was there for me in my darkest hour allowed me to see that he could be more than a friend.

I’m also surprised by your family’s reaction, I would have hoped they’d be relieved from you breaking it off!  Best of luck!

Post # 14
2815 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Hugs to you!  Please be careful jumping into a new relationship so fast though.

Post # 15
4415 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I’m so sorry that happened.  I think you made the right choice though. 

Post # 16
352 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2012 - Zama Beach Club, Isla Mujeres, Mexico

Wow, you have been through so much. I am so happy that you are healthy again. I cant imagine going through that sort of abandonment from your own family. I’m sure a lot of people will tell you to take it slow with this new guy, and thats my instinct as well, but only you know what is right for you. Sometimes you just know. I wish you nothing but happiness and love for the rest of your life 🙂

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