- 9 years ago
- Wedding: July 2011
Hello everybody! I just need to vent about a few things before I flip out on my FI.
First of all, my FI and I are in the market to purchase a home. His mother, the crazy control freak that she is, is making it a point to come home from her vacation 2 weeks early to make sure FI doesn’t put an offer in on a house she doesn’t like or that is too far away from her. Of course, she doesn’t say thats why she is coming home specifically but we know thats what she is doing and she is trying to make it seem like she just wants to be his “support.”
She doesn’t give two shits about me or my opinion. She doesn’t think I will be a good “wifey” and point him in the right direction, so she feels the need to do it all. It really actually makes me wanna puke.
On to my second complaint. My FI’s psycho ex girlfriend… For the past year and a half, she has been popping up at random. Let me give the backstory on this one.
FI and his ex had an on and off relationship through high school. They gave it a try one more time 2 years before he and I got together. She cheated on him several times (even filmed it once, which he later saw), broke up with him every single time claiming she couldn’t love him and he made her sick. She just hurt him constantly and then she would turn around and pretend nothing ever happened and then run due to her “committment issues.” The woman is a psycho slut. No other way to word it.
He finally stopped going back to her 2 years before he and I got together.
When he and I first started dating, she caught wind of it and kept calling him but he didn’t see a problem with it and just tried to ignore her. She called FI’s mom on a regular basis too and was therefore able to hear everything about FI and my relationship. FI’s mom told his ex that we were extremely happy and his ex just said, “well thats good. I need him to learn to love again for when he and I get back together.”
I laughed when I heard that. His ex thought that I was just “warming him up” for her again. She left us alone for a few months and then out of the blue, she drunk texts FI to tell him that she misses him and pours her heart out over at least 10 texts. FI’s mom was then called the next day by his ex. He got fed up and told his mom not to talk to her or tell her info about our relationship.
Apparantly, his mom listened. The ex got so pissed off that she again drunk texted FI about 8 texts telling him that “She’s (me) a sorry excuse for a girlfriend and if she (me) were half the woman I am, she (me) would let me hang around. How dare she (me) keep me from you (fi) and your family. You and that bitch (me) won’t last my friend.” Just to name a few…
Well, that actually set my FI off to the point where he changed his number and told his family to stay away from his ex. It kept her at bay for a few months til she somehow found out that we had gotten engaged, in which case she decided to come back full force, trying to come to his house, calling his mom and egging his car (she later admitted to it).
She must of felt she had gotten her fill cause she hadn’t disturbed us in a few months again. Well, now that FI and I have officially set a date and we are looking for a home and things are looking pretty good… SHE IS BACK!! I don’t get it, does she just sense somethings “wrong” like a dog?! How does she do it?? I am not sure how far she will take this one but so far its only been a few phone calls to his moms house. Luckily, his mom has been out of state… I’m sure his ex will know our business once his mom gets back into town. I might have to hire security for our wedding day!! Lol!
Anybody else having issues w/ the psycho ex girlfriend or boyfriend?!
Thanks for letting me vent!!