- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2010
Surprisingly, I am as cool as a cucumber. FI not so much.
Our wedding is in 4 days and unfortunately the GMs grandpa passed away on Monday and the funeral is Saturday in a city 4 hours away. No way he can come to our wedding.
FI is just freaking out, worried about how it will be unbalanced etc etc. I realize, this is *his* breaking point with the stress. Whereas, mine was a month ago. Now, as long as I get my table numbers made, I really don’t care about anything else that may go wrong.
I think part of it is that there was a worry that my Aunt (my mother figure) was going to be unable to attend (long story, I think I posted about it before). But that got sorted out, and she is able to come. I realized after that, there are worse things that could happen other than if my escort cards get done etc.
I told FI we are going to go out for dinner, I’ll give him a backrub … and hope that he is able to relax and realize it is not the end of the world that his GM can’t be there, or that I will have 3 BMs and he will only have 2 GMs.