- 5 years ago
I have known about this website for about two days now. Yesterday I posted about how my BF had made some comments that made me think that he was going to be buying a ring soon and we were moving forward with our relationship. I was on cloud nine about all this! I know without a shadow of a doubt that he is the love of my life and we belong together. We would do anything for each other. Now, with that said our relationship hasn’t always been the easiest, but it rarely has to do with us as a couple.
When my BF was 22 he got married to a woman and they were together for 9 years and had two wonderful kids together. They have been divored for a while and she herself is in a relationship. (she is ‘enegaged’ to the man that she was having an affaire with, but thats a whole other story) There have been times in the past where she has made comments that she missed my BF/her ex husband. I know that nothing would ever happen between them again, but she always seems to find a way to worm into our relationship. I’m not even really upset by it, I find it more amussing and sad!
Well tonight she pull one of her ‘crazy bitch fits’ and text my BF about how she wanted the money back that she pays him for child support (state ordered) and if he didnt she was going to the Department of Jutice. This always puts my BF in a worried mood since we have the kids five days a week and he doesn’t want to lose that time. (The reason we have them Mon-Fri is because she is a workaholic and would have to pay someone to watch them for 12 hours a day if we didn’t, well that and my BF is a great dad who loves having his kids around.) This also isn’t the first time that she has done this, the last time being on mine and BF’s 3 year anniversary. Needless to say she is a stupid drama queen that needs a life!
This has become one of those things that we know/hope will blow over and she will text us saying she is sorry in a day or two. The reason that I am so upset by this is becasue everytime that I have something to be excited about like a anniversary or the fact that my BF was talking about getting engaged she comes in and shits all over the mood. I know that when we get married that she wont be going any where and I have learned to live with her dumb ass being in our lives. My main concern is that this might have made BF gunshy and might have push back our relationship going to the next step. I’m just annoyed and needed to vent! He was really sweet after he told me she was pulling this crap again and laid on the couch with me and tod me a few times that he loved me.
Do any of you out there deal with crazy baby mama drama? If you do how do you deal with it? I know we will get married no matter what but it has been over three years, I want to call him husband!
Thanks for reading… I know it was long!