One thank you card or two?

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

kb7:  I would send 1 card and tell her how you and your FI appreciate the gifts etc…

Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Are you planning on sending two separate thank you notes to other people who give you a gift for both your shower and your wedding? If so, I’d do that for her. If not I think it would be nice to send her just one note, but with a small gift, perhaps a photo, to really show how grateful you are 🙂

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I would send one thank you note acknowledging both gifts and let her know how much you are looking forward to celebrating with her at the wedding.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I’d probably send one now about both gifts, and then follow up after the wedding with another saying how much her contribution meant to you and how special you felt on your day. Then it’s two notes, but it isn’t quite as awkward as sending two notes now. 

I don’t think you need to do this for everyone, but because of the nature of the gift, it seems a good compromise.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I agree one card now for both gifts, but another after thankinthree for everythingthanks helping make it possible ect.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: Davis Island Garden Club

Jess1483:  I was going to suggest the same. 

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