- 8 years ago
- Wedding: May 2011
I’m really feeling like nothing is going to plan and the dream i had in my head of my wedding is falling flat on it’s face….. Just need a little vent as i always feel better after talking to you girls….
So we live in the UK and we are getting married in Mexico. Everyone is super pleased with this (or was)! We only wanted a small wedding and we have never pressured any of our friends or family to come. It’s a big expense to ask. But our closest friends said yes straight away and immediate family so we are really happy. About 22 in total coming. Perfect!! Oh no, after an eventful few months row’s with FMIL over wedding decisions, my dad then announces he’s not coming….. I was upset, cried then mad and embarrassed and now i’m getting over it! (he says he can’t do the long flight, he hasn’t been on a plane in yr’s and now can’t) So i’m just getting over these two things when yesterday FI comes home from golf to say his best friend (best man) is not coming! His wife is pregnant and the baby will only be 6/7 months old when we go! It’s a bitter sweet feeling. Obviously we are happy they are going to be parents for the first time but shattered Best Man wont be at our wedding!! His wife wont let him fly for a week on his own! Oh i am just on a real low about it all……It just seems its one thing after another, anyone else feeling like that?…… we have decided to have my son will walk me down the aisle and FI’s dad will now be best man. I’m proud we have ppl to step in but i still feel a little deflated about it all….. am i just being selfish??