(Closed) Only decent father figure cheated….making me get yucky feelings about marriage

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
2457 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. 🙁 My dad cheated on my mom, and her 2nd husband almost did.. so.. I can relate.

All I can really say here is that your FI is NOT your stepdad, and try not to compare him. Your stepdad deciding to be a completely inconsiderate asshat shouldn’t deter you from marrying the man of your dreams!

Post # 4
Member
6015 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

I would be a basket case.  I mean your wedding is so close an these things happening so close add so much stress.  

You trust your guy.  You trust yourself.   People make mistakes all the time, I don’t get the whole issue, but he’s a person.  For the majority of your life he’s been a role model. I would … ugh .. after trying to punch him in the guy… try to focus on the good  things he gave you.   Seriously tho I’d want to gut punch him. 

Post # 5
Member
6015 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

I would be a basket case.  I mean your wedding is so close an these things happening so close add so much stress.  

You trust your guy.  You trust yourself.   People make mistakes all the time, I don’t get the whole issue, but he’s a person.  For the majority of your life he’s been a role model. I would … ugh .. after trying to punch him in the gut… try to focus on the good  things he gave you.   Seriously tho I’d want to gut punch him. 

The topic ‘Only decent father figure cheated….making me get yucky feelings about marriage’ is closed to new replies.

Find Amazing Vendors