(Closed) Only In Arkansas: MOH Problems

posted 9 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
5823 posts
Bee Keeper

I wouldn’t even BOTHER to fill the spot!!  I would leave the spot EMPTY to show how much you support your FCIL!!

Or I would just pick someone who fits the dress.  Anyone is better than keeping her as your MOH.  (And what kind of message would that send your BM??)

Post # 4
1205 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

You can "promote" a bridesmaid and not fill the spot. You don’t have to have even numbers, but I know how it can feel in small community when everyone knows what’s going on. I personally would have a hard time having a cheater stand up for me at my wedding, but you could have the former MOH drop down to bridesmaid.

If you’re already considering not having her be your MOH you should let her go. 

Good luck. 

Post # 5
2641 posts
Sugar bee

It sounds like a lot of drama you don’t need.  And she’s making it difficult for you by involving this other friend who is also a BM.

Without knowing the whole reality of the situation, I would say it might be best to let this MOH go.  I don’t think usually it’s a good idea to get so involved in other people’s business, but this just seems like too much… yucky kharma.  I also wouldn’t stress too much about finding another person to fill in.  Just let it be as having fewer girls than guys.

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