- 7 years ago
- Wedding: November 2011
A few weeks ago I was getting stressed out because no one had volunteered to plan Fiance a bachelor party.
I had had two offers to have a bachelorette party and wasn’t going to have one if he couldn’t. So, since we are two months away from the wedding, I emailed the girlfriend of one of FI’s groomsmen and asked if they would be able to host a party for him since I didn’t think I could do it myself. (no other groomsman would be able to I don’t think)
Last week I was out to have a few drinks with some friends and one of FI’s other friends was there. He actually offered to host FI’s bachelor party at his house as long it was small, they could go camping, etc. I gave him a list of a few close friends, and that was that. I ended up telling Fiance about him hosting a party for him to ask about the guest list, and Fiance said I missed a few people.
At that point I hadn’t received and email back from GM’s Girlfriend, but today I checked my email and she said they would host his party, his Groomsmen new exactly where, and that she just needed phone numbers and names of guests.
So, should I tell Fiance about the second one, too or keep it a surprise? I’m worried he’ll be disappointed when the first one happens because all of his friends won’t be there since the second one is bigger and a surprise.