Post # 1
Would you rather open bar or favors? As a guest, would you be upset if you didn’t get a favor but you have a great meal and drinks were paid for?
We can either do open bar and no favors and just beer and wine and have small favors.
Post # 4
I’m not a huge drinker, but I would take open bar over favors 🙂 If a favor is anything but food I would probably trash it (sorry!) and if it was edible I would eat it before I even left the reception haha!
Post # 5
Personally as a guest I think I’d rather have an open bar. But then again I’m a bit of a drinker *hic* 😉
Plus, you can always put a little sign on the escort card table, or on individual tables that says you made a donation in lieu of favors (and no, it doesn’t have to be $200 for 200 guests). Good luck!
Post # 6
OPEN BAR x1,000,000
Favors = something that takes me two seconds to eat or something I throw away.
Post # 7
I would hands down prefer an open bar to getting a favor. Favors are fine and all, I know a lot of people put real effort into them, but as a guest I rarely give them a second thought. I do, however, like to have a few drinks, expecially at a party.
Post # 8
Open bar, allllll the way.
Post # 9
OPEN BAR! I don’t really care for favors.
Post # 10
Open bar for sure…and I don’t even drink anymore =)
Post # 12
BAR! Two votes, because the boy voted bar as well!
Post # 13
Thanks girls! Just had this conversation with Fiance and we don’t want to cheat people but I would rather feel as though I was taken care of at a wedding than get something I will throw in a drawer.
Post # 14
I have been to countless weddings where people just leave the favors on the table, and it always makes me feel bad for the couple who likely spent a decent about of money on them.
So I would definitely say go for the bar.
Post # 15
@what2bee- thank the boy for participating!