Opinions on HIS band

posted 2 years ago in Rings
Post # 2
2428 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

“are people even going to know he’s married?”

If he’s wearing it on his ring finger.. yes, people will know he’s married. It looks great to me, and I think it’s sweet he wanted something with stones!

Post # 3
1116 posts
Bumble bee

I think it looks really cool and if people don’t realise that a ring on his ring finger means he’s married then they’re stupid. Also, so what if rubies aren’t special to you… my e ring is a sapphire because FI liked it and bought it not because of anything else.

Post # 4
77 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I like it! And it sounds like it’s what he wanted. 🙂

I agree with PPs. If he’s wearing it on his ring finger, people are going to know he’s married.

  • This reply was modified 2 years, 2 months ago by  msparks.
Post # 5
566 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

i like it! what does your cuz mean? he wont look married? just cause there are small rubies in there? its what he likes! its what you like! there are so many non-traditional wedding rings/e-rings out there and for someone to say people wont know if hes married is silly. to ME it looks like an obvious wedding ring. my friend loves tanzanite. no significance for her – none to him. does her e-ring look like an ering YUP. do people know shes engaged (or just wearing a cocktail ring on her finger) who cares? she knows shes engaged! her friends/family knows shes engaged. she loves the ring, so does her FI. that at the end of the day is all that truly matters. sorry for the rant! 

Post # 7
2243 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012 - Southern California

Even if he doesn’t “look married,” your husband will still act married & fend off any advances from women that are somehow mistaking a couple rubies on his ring finger!!

I’m so glad he got what he wanted & you didn’t try to pressure him otherwise 🙂

Post # 8
515 posts
Busy bee

lilkatgrrl:  it kind of looks like my dads wedding ring, and no one has ever questioned if he was married or not. people are dumb lol 

Post # 9
2355 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

There’s nothing wrong with it. He won’t be the first man with stones in his ring. On a related note, FMIL hates FI’s band. No big deal.

Post # 10
489 posts
Helper bee

lilkatgrrl:  It looks like a wedding band to me. Hell, my husband doesn’t even wear his ring! So don’t worry about your cousin saying that folks won’t know he’s married based on HER opinon of the ring. 

Post # 11
1622 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Cape May

The only opinion that matters on this is his. It’s HIS ring. End of story. Rubies are significant because he likes them. That’s all any one needs to know. 

Post # 13
5187 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2009 - New York, NY

Your FI’s band looks awesome with rubies, which is what he wanted.  As PP stated, his opinion is what matters, since he will be the one wearing it.

Post # 14
557 posts
Busy bee

you’re cousin is an idiot. If he is wearing that ring on his left ring finger no one will doubt that it is a wedding ring.

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