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    Meowkers    August 27, 2011   Los Angeles, CA

    I'm a BM in my friend's wedding this coming May.  There are three of us and we were all told to chose our own dresses with a few guidelines:

    green

    at least fingertip length

    not too much cleavage

    not too bridesmaidy

    and it has to fit her garden cocktail level of formality.

    I've been looking for fun, summery garden type dresses in light flowy fabrics but yesterday found this on sale.  It's Kate Spade so the quality is great and the price is very good for the quality but still not dirt cheap, $169  But I'm on the fence about it.  Is it too boring and too bridesmaidy?  

    I was hoping to buy a dress I could re-wear and I'm not sure if I'd re-wear this one.  Does it scream "bridesmaid" or is it just a nice cocktail dress?

    What do you ladies think?  The dress is not returnable because it's on sale so if I get it there's no going back.

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    jpalm13    December 21, 2012  

    I like it. It looks much better on you than the model! No worries of the wind catching your skirt for a Marilyn moment either.

     
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    GroovyHippieChick    October 20, 2012   My Happy Place

    I like it.  I don't think it looks too bridesmaidy.  .

    as for wearing it again - I wouldn't because of the color, not the style.  

    $169.00 is a lot to pay for a dress you wouldn't wear again.

     
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    sailor    May 2010  

    I really like it.

     
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    Brielle    May 22, 2009  

    I think that dress is adorable! The fact that it's Kate Spade doesn't hurt, either! :) 

     
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    totheislnds    February 12, 2011   NC

    I think its cute and would make a great bridesmaid dress without being to 'bridesmaidy" plus its a great dress to have on hand for other weddings or even just a night out. it would look cute with black tights and a black cardigan or just as is with some cute sandles for the summer. Is say go for it because you can totally wear it again.

     
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    alicia1745    April 21, 2012   Lake Mary, FL

    The style is super cute & wearable but I would be hesistant to re-wear it because of the color.

     
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    shannonh32    September 8, 2012   Michigan

    I think it is perfect! Not bridesmaid looking at all. It is a tad pricey if you are never going to wear it again, but i personally think you could wear it anywhere. Just throw a sweater over it and wear it to work, throw it on for a night out, anything like that. It's pretty versatile to me. :)

     
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    julies1949      

    I think the dress is cute. If you wouldn't wear it again, you could also get it from www.renttherunway.com for $75.

    http://www.renttherunway.com/shop/designers/katespade_dresses/darciedress

     
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    Meowkers    August 27, 2011   Los Angeles, CA

    thank you for the feedback ladies.
     

    @jpalm13:  thank you and very true about the wind.
     

    @GroovyHippieChick:  and @alicia1745:  I actually love the color and would have no problem wearing it.  It's the style of the dress I'm hesitant about.  My mom discribed it as "white bread boring".

     @julies1949:  excellent suggestion.  Unfortunately I wouldn't be able to return in within the timeline provided by RenttheRunway due to the wedding logistics.  Plus the dress does not fit me perfectly and will need minor alterations.

     
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    cglaubitz    June 23, 2012   Southern Minnesota

    I like it and I feel like you could make it more rewearable, with a sweater and more relaxed hairstyle.  Pinterest has some good inspiration styles with similar cuts of dresses.

     
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    Au Jardin    May 26, 2012   France

    The dress looks great on you (way better than the model!), so I think it would be fine - but considering you aren't crazy about it and you still have a couple of months to keep looking, I'm inclined to say skip it. If you are going to pay that price, you might as well find something you love. 

     
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    Jamcnair    October 20, 2012   Morristown, Tennessee

    Cute

     
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    Miss Orchard    September 8, 2012   Cambridge, MA

    I like it...

     
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    Running Elley    June 19, 2011   Fresno, CA

    I really like it and I do think that it's a good, classic re-wearable dress!

     
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    flownmuse    May 7, 2016   Scotland, UK

    Love it. The belt you are wearing really makes it too :)

     
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    Tigrrlily04    June 8, 2012   DE

    I have that dress! :)  Green is my favorite color so I snapped it up when I saw it go on sale.  I think it's a great multi-purpose dress.  You could wear it to another wedding, a holiday cocktail party, a shower, heck even to church with a cardigan! 

     
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    rebwana    July 13, 2012   Baltimore, MD

    I think it's perfect- fits the requirements, looks good with your coloring. A bridesmaid dress is supposed to be somewhat simple, but I disagree with your Mom that it's boring. You could wear it to other weddings.

     
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    mink    June 2012   Charlottesville, Virginia

    GOREGOUS!!!

    As a redhead, I'd kiss the bride if I was a bridesmaid in this wedding.  I would wear that dress all the time after the wedding!

     
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    vreelans    August 11, 2012   minneapolis, mn

    i love it! id wear it OFTEN! you could jazz it up with tights, skinny belt & cardigan in the winters even! definitely love.

     
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    angarrett81    September 15, 2012   live in Hoboken / wedding in VA

    I'd totally wear that as a cocktail dress.  I love the color.

     
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    vreelans    August 11, 2012   minneapolis, mn

    sometimes people find great dresses on modcloth.com as well!

     
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    Meowkers    August 27, 2011   Los Angeles, CA

    Thanks Ladies. You guys are swaying my opinion.  I think I might get it.  The dress is definitly slightly simple but at the same time that makes it wearable for different occassions.  I have two other weddings I'll be able to wear it to this summer, (with different styling and accessorizing).

     

    @mink:  yes!  I have auburn hair right now but thinking of going blonde. I decided to wait until after this wedding because I love the way green looks with my auburn hair.

     
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    misschickpea    October 26, 2013   Austin, TX

    I love it! The emerald color is gorgeous and its very classic.

     
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    rachie576    April 20, 2013   NY

    i think its great! i LOVE the color and like the others said- looks better on you than the model! and the belt looks good w/it too :) nice choice

     
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    Bride7844    June 23, 2012   Perth Australia

    I love everything about it. I would be thrilled if my BM's wore it.

     
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    sarahcool    May 12, 2012   Cincinnati, Ohio

    Thumbs up - that is a classy dress.  

     
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    taylor.ashleys    August 6, 2011   Alabama

    I love it! it looks great on you and it definitely meets all the guidelines

     
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    cottons    July 21, 2012   England, UK

    i really like it! it's something i'd wear more than once too. 

     
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    SarahConnors    June 9, 2012  

    I think it looks fantastic! It's not too bridesmaids-y either- I think it's perfect!! :D

     
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    littlebear2171    June 16, 2012   Boston

    i really like it, it looks great on you and the color is fabulous

     
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    MrsNeutrino    July 2012  

    LOVE IT! 

     

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