Post # 1
Im just having another one of those questionable frustratEd waiting nights.. This all goes back to thinking about a Facebook message I read of my boyfriends… Please don’t crucify me for reading it :/ I know it was wrong of me to do, but he left it open on the computer do it was all too tempting…
The message goes back to right before we were going away on vacation for our anniversary.. This guy emailed him to see if he could work for him but the dates were when we were going to be away.. This was the email : “I would live to work with you again mike, but I’m going away on vacation that week where I plan on proposing to my girlfriend on, crazy right!? Haha”
Well that was back in October…
So this is another reason why I’m not Patient about waiting…
I just had to share because it was bothering me tonight
Thank you guys for listening
Post # 3
Aw, sounds like something must have happened that caused a change in his plans. Hang in there hon!
Post # 4
Oh I can understand how hard that must be for you! October was a while ago, but maybe he’s waiting on THIS October to do it? Cry your frustration out, keep your head up, and keep busy! He obviously already has the ring, so hopefully it will be VERY SOON.
Post # 5
Hey the great news is that he definitely is planning on proposing! You know that FOR SURE, its just a matter of when now. Although that is totally annoying. I’m sorry girl!
Post # 6
My FI had the ring for a few months and after he finally proposed said that there were several times he wanted to ask but it didn’t seem right. So I’m sure he’s waiting for what he thinks would be the perfect moment.
Post # 7
I really don’t know why he would add that and then not ask you! I really do feel for ya honey.
Hang in there. xx
Post # 8
Thank you all! 🙂 the support on here is so amazing!.. I’m hoping on this October or then we’ll have problems :(… I don’t think he does have the ring though.. I feel like that’ll be a big rush job days before he does propose!..
Post # 9
He told me a few months after that he was going to but was crazy busy with work (which he was and he works in film so he was a few states away) but still.. I don’t think that was a good enough excuse then bc if he really wanted to make it happen he could have and he certainly could have since then… I’m sorry I’m going on and on… It just feels good to vent about it
Post # 10
Vent away, that what we’re here for.
I’m sorry you’re still waiting. It’ll be your time soon.
Post # 11
Maybe he is just waiting to get the prefect ring. If he wants to be with you forever he will propose soon trust me 🙂
Post # 12
Oh girly, DON”T SNOOP! I’ve had to stop. b/c regardless of what you find, it’ll make you upset! I’ve stopped, b/c I don’t want to find anymore to make me upset, or ruin the surprise. I talked with a male friend of mine and SO’s who said he had the ring over a year ago when he went to NYC with his now wife (they had been together 7 years at that point!) and he couldn’t do it, it was in his pocket! I’m in the same boat with you, and just trying to relax. I don’t want a “forced” proposal, so I’m trying SO VERY HARD to be patient. I know how I feel about him, so I have to be patient and let him do his thing, when the time is right.
Post # 13
Oh, that must be so frustrating! I’m sorry lady! I can’t imagine finding that and him not proposing for so long. I feel for you. I really hope he doesn’t keep you on edge for too much longer. *Hugs*