Opinions Please….Would you be offended?

posted 4 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Would you be upset to not be included as a host on the invitation?
    Yes. : (17 votes)
    35 %
    No. : (28 votes)
    57 %
    Yes and I'd say something about it. : (4 votes)
    8 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    460 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I would look at an invitation like that and think that those were the people handling RSVPs, not necessarily that they were the only ones hosting it. How many other bridesmaids are there? If it’s only the three of you, then it would have been polite to include your name. If there are more, then I wouldn’t think it was a big deal.

    Post # 4
    Member
    6903 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2013

    No. The invites for my bridal shower only listed my MOH for the contact and didn’t say anything about who was hosting. I’m pretty sure everyone knew who was hosting because they all pitched in during the shower.

    TBH as a MOH I wouldn’t have even thought about it. How many BMs are there? If there are more than 3 it seems ridiculous to list everyone out. If it is just you 3, I’m sure it will be really obvious that you are hosting as well since it’s at your house.

    Post # 5
    Member
    1624 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    No, I wouldn’t be upset. 

    Post # 7
    Member
    3200 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    @MrsBeck:  +1 mine say MOH’s name and not the host’s, because MOH is the one handling RSVP’s. if I got an invite I would just assume that was who was organizing RSVP’s, not hosting the shower. 

    Post # 8
    Member
    1080 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    I might be a little upset, however if you are sure they just didn’t know it was wrong to leave you out I would shake it off and not let it bother you… I am sure since its in your home and you will great people and likely lead alot people will become aware you are the hostess 

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