Opposite sex friends

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

fine by me

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

Fine by me as well.

Post # 6
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Daizy914:  fine by me.

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2017

@Daizy914:  yes. opposite sex friendships are fine. Outings with those friends are fine as well, be it alone or in a group.

 

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

He can have whatever kind of friends he wants, and his activity restrictions have nothing to do with gender.

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Daizy914:  yes, i don’t have a problem with my husband to be going to dinner with a girl.

he has done it while we’ve been engaged.

and he wouldn’t stop me from seeing my male friends.

 

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Doesn’t bother me with existing friends at all.  My husband works shifts and often sees a female friend without me for lunch when I’m at work (we are asking her to be godmother to our unborn baby).  I would question it a bit more if he suddenly made a new female friend he wanted to go for 1 on 1 dinners with!

 

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@Daizy914:  I’m fine with opposite sex friendships. I’d also be fine with my SO going out to dinner with a gal friend, he is entitled to spend time with his friends regardless of gender. 

 

Post # 12
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

@Daizy914:  I’ll be the lone dessenter! No, I wouldn’t be okay with that.

All of his female friends are married, so why wouldn’t we all go out together?

Post # 14
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

@Daizy914:  I prefer it’s someplace causal as opposed to a fancy date type place but yes, in general I’m okay with it. 

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - UK

Absolutely fine. Because I trust him for one, and for two because I know that just because someone has boobs doesn’t means he’s going to be instantly intent on taking her clothes off, based on both his personal tastes and the fact that his life is not controlled by his penis.

 

Equally, I don’t assume that everyone with breasts will immediately be overcome by uncontrollable lust for him the moment they are left alone together, even if he does have nice legs.

 

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas

He had them before we were together, so I can’t very well be upset about them. Plus, I have male friends, and would be offended if he told me I couldn’t. Trust is the way forward.

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