opposites attract?

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014 - British Columbia

Ah, you mean like magnets! 🙂

FI and I are opposites, but only to a certain degree.

– I’m a bit more outgoing than FI is; he’s much more shy and quiet in new social situations

– Same with the beach while he loves the mountains! I grew up close to a beach most of my life for 16 years. There’s barely any beaches in the Prairies.

– I like savoury snacks; he prefers sweets

– I’m generally messy; he’s tidier and more organized. I’m lucky he wasn’t looking for a housewife because I was looking for a house-husband, lol

– Culturally, we’re also very different. In my culture, it’s common to have kids living with parents until they marry. In his culture, once you’re 18, you’re on your own.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

My hubby is literally the guy version of me. We’re both super outgoing, same crazy sense of humor, can be a little sensitive… But we look opposite lol he’s 6 foot blonde hair blue eyes all American, I’m 5’2 dark hair dark eyes more exotic looking.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

He’s tidy, I’m messy. Our music tastes definitely vary. He’s far taller than I am. We’re pretty similar otherwise.

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

He’s shy, quiet and private. 

I’m outgoing and boisterous & within 15 mins of meeting me, you’ll know my whole life story hehe. 

He craves sweets, I crave salty

He’s calm, I’m a nervous wreck at times.

He has an amazingly wicked sense of humor, I don’t lol. 

Opposites do attract! 

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

He’s an early bird. I’m a night owl. 

He loves salty snacks. I love sweet. 

He’s a meat & potatoes guy. I can eat pasta everyday. 

He likes family gatherings. I hate them. 

He’s laid-back & calm. I’m usually a nervous nut. 

He likes Sci-FI shows. I like crime shows. 

He likes beer. I like fruity drinks. 

He likes to dress very casual. I like getting all dolled-up. 

He’s not a clean freak. I am. 

He likes the ocean. I like the beach. 

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

My mom says, “Opposites attract, but they don’t stay together.” Hence the first ex-RedHeadKel. Lol! But whatever works!

Post # 10
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

I am extremely spontaneous, I overthink EVERYTHING, I am always paranoid.

My husband is my anchor and slows me down. He is my calm when I spaz out, and he definitely keeps me level.

Aside from those differences, we’re pretty similar. 

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