(Closed) Oral on Uncircumsized … Would you? Do you?

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Would you give oral if he is Uncircumsized?
    Yes : (544 votes)
    76 %
    No : (173 votes)
    24 %
  • Post # 3
    4887 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    I think it’s unfortunate that you’re having such a negative reaction to his penis, to be honest.  Imagine if your boobs made him gag, you know?

    Seriously, just get him hard, pull the skin back with one hand and it’s no different from any other cut penis.  

    Post # 4
    1798 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    My husband is uncircumsized and giving oral is totally fine. As long as your guy practices good hygiene, it shouldnt really be that different. Since its something that he really wants, I think you should at least make an effort to try it. Start off with giving him oral in the shower or just after he gets out. You will probably get used to it over time.

    Post # 5
    818 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2013

    @msfahrenheit:  I agree

    After he has taken a shower suprise him with a little oral action.

    Post # 6
    518 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    I give my Fiance oral all the time and I’ve never thought a thing about it.  I’ve had experience with both but Fiance is uncircumcised.  I don’t understand the prejudice.  Fiance has impeccable hygiene and is just beautiful.

    Post # 7
    11273 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    i agree with pp.  my fi is uncircumsized and i don’t even notice the foreskin when he is hard.  it just goes back naturally.  my fi is very hygenic when it comes to his penis so i never have a problem with oral.  if he wasn’t, i could totally see your point.  i would suggest having a shower with your fi and washing his penis yourself to ensure that it is clean.  it’s good foreplay too.  wait until he is hard and pull back the skin tight before performing oral.  do it in the shower or as soon as you get out, or both!!  i am sure he will really appreciate your efforts….maybe even reciprocate 🙂

    Post # 8
    907 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    I think its a little mean to not try. What if u had a long clit and he didn’t try and help u out. It’s a little different but not a big deal.

    Post # 9
    1352 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    @AlexaN:  I think you just have major issues with your Fiance being uncircumcised, you seem to be fixating on this based on your past posts. Have you talked to him about this yet? You shouldn’t be disgusted by your FI’s penis. My Fiance is uncircumcised and we have no issues… I think this is a HUGE issue you need to deal with, you sound miserable.

    Post # 10
    2651 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2016

    I  honestly don’t think i would be able to. Creeps me out. Sorry.

    I’m not saying I would not TRY but, its one of those things that if i am not comfortable doing it, it is not happening, and I do not think that anyone should make you feel bad for being uncomfortable/grossed out. 


    Post # 11
    76 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    i  agree with the other bees….you  seem to have an issue with this part of him, and i think it is something you need to put some serious thought and discussion into. they say the three biggest things people fight over are kids, money, and sex. and you seem to have a big problem with the sex part already….can you imagine it in ten plus years?? i can only imagine how this makes him feel…what if he gagged looking at parts of you? i dont know, maybe you need to educate yourself and become familiar with uncircumcision. it is happening more and more these days and gone are the stigmas it used to have.

    Post # 12
    255 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    “I give my Fiance oral all the time and I’ve never thought a thing about it.  I’ve had experience with both but Fiance is uncircumcised.  I don’t understand the prejudice.  Fiance has impeccable hygiene and is just beautiful.  ~pccl”

    100% Agreed!  This is really a problem.  Honestly, there is very little difference between a circumsized and uncircumsized penis when it’s erect, and it shouldn’t make any difference when it comes to oral.  Do you expect him to give you oral regularly when you won’t reciprocate? 

    Post # 13
    3626 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Sorry but eww no! It makes me vomit just thinking about it.

    Post # 14
    7771 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Um, are we talking about the same male part?  Because EVERYTHING- HJ, BJ- is easier when uncircumsized.

    Post # 15
    955 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2014

    @AlexaN:  I feel PPs are being a bit harsh. If you are grossed out and uncomfortable, that’s obviously not something you can control! I don’t blame you, though. I’ve heard stories from my friends who have hooked up with uncircumcized guys. They also disliked all that loose skin. It’s not something I would be interested in either. Fortunately, SO is circumcized. 

    Post # 16
    115 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    What a question…  If you’d grown up in pretty much anywhere else in the world, aside from amongst Jewish and Muslim populations, you wouldn’t think twice about this.  Uncircumcised erect penises look pretty much the same as circumcised erect penises.  Imagine if removing outer labia were the norm in another culture, and men said it would “make them vomit” to perform oral on an intact woman.  Pretty sad.

    Men are born with foreskin.  If they’re generally clean otherwise, you have nothing to fear (and if they aren’t generally clean, it’s icky whether they’re circumcised or not!).

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