Oral question- *tmi you've been warned!*

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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816 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Don’t think. Just swallow.

Post # 5
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373 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@anongirl89:  I swallow every time and have never had a problem with it. I’m not sure about tips, and it’s OK not to enjoy doing it, but if you really want to give it a go to please your BF, I would say maybe try to get out of your head? If you’re focusing in on what your swallowing and grossing yourself out during the process, of course you’re going to gag it up. Unless there’s another issue like taste or something else, I find that it’s really mental. I enjoy going down on my hubby and knowing that it gives him so much pleasure, swallowing and all. When you’re in the right frame of mind and thinking about it in a positive way, it’s no big deal. 

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

The only time I have ever successfully done this is when he was close I got him as far down my throat as possible so that I didn’t even taste it, it just went down… lol.. that sounds so freaking gross.

My DH doesn’t really care though, so I am thankful! He is really good about nudging my chin when he is close so he got either catch it or go on his own stomach. 

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

From what I remember from a Passion Party, they have products that are “numbing” to make it easier for you to both do the deed and swallow the results. That’s the best advice I have, but honestly, I bet he’s pretty happy either way, hahah.

 

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Why do you want to? Do you want to do it because he thinks it’s sexy, or because you want to do it for him? Has he said he wants you to do it? My FI has never made me swallow, I do it because I want to, for him 

Just relax. Stop thinking about it, and let it happen. If you’ve never had him go in your mouth, start there, and spit it out. IF you’re worried about the taste, try to get him to go further in your mouth so its not on your tounge. 

There is nothing wrong with not swallowing.

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I dunno, I used to do it, but it was kind of a chore and made me enjoy the whole process less, so I just stopped. I asked him if he cared and he said quite seriously he didn’t even notice anything had changed. So if you can get over it just being in your mouth for a second… I don’t spit grossly or anything. I just part my lips a little and let it fall out while I’m still on him. If it’s the “stuff in my mouth” part that is a problem, IDK, but if it’s the “stuff in my throat/going down” part that’s a problem, there’s no real need to swallow unless he’s super fixated on it.

Post # 14
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Busy Beekeeper

@anongirl89:  How about your bf just accepts that you wont swallow. Being an awesome girl friend should not be categorised by being willing to swallow. No one should ever do anything sexual that they are not comfortable with.

 

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

@anongirl89:  What I was getting at was that if you wanted to do it because he asked you, and you didn’t really feel like doing it, then that might be part of your problem. But if you’re fully wanting to do it, then it’s just in your head. Like many PP have said, relax. Just dont think about it.

Post # 16
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

If you don’t want to do it, and it grosses you out, why would you try to force yourself to do it? 

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