(Closed) oral sex…. love it? hate it?

posted 8 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Do you like oral sex?
    I love giving it : (111 votes)
    21 %
    Love recieving it : (146 votes)
    28 %
    eh, not a fan of giving it... : (105 votes)
    20 %
    could do without recieving : (91 votes)
    17 %
    doesnt matter either way, im open to all kinds of things... : (73 votes)
    14 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    7976 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    Everyone is different – there’s nothing wrong with you if you don’t enjoy oral sex!

    Have you talked to your FI about this though? If he’s doing anything that makes you uncomfortable, even if that something would be totally normal for someone else, it’s important to talk to him about it, because you should never be uncomfortable in intimate situations!

    Post # 5
    Member
    7976 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    have you tried just after showering/bathing (maybe together)? that might help with feeling ‘cleaner’ 🙂

    Post # 6
    Member
    525 posts
    Busy bee

    I feel exactly the same way actually! I don’t mind giving it but I refuse to allow him to reciprocate because it just feels so unclean! I know everyone raves about it but I just can’t get my head around the idea and relax…

    Post # 7
    Member
    335 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2010

    not too into getting it but love giving it. FI is better with his other utilties!

    Post # 8
    Member
    37 posts
    Newbee

    I love giving it and truth be told I love receiving it at least how it feels but…it also makes me extremely uncomfortable.  I don’t know why but it just does.

    Post # 9
    Member
    873 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 1969

    You aren’t weird at all!  The most important thing in any relationship is to feel safe, to feel able to be yourself.  If it’s something that makes you uncomfortable, that’s fine.  Lots of people have issues with different sexual activities, and it is important to be both sexually compatible with your partner, and able to negotiate your sexual wants and needs as a couple. 

    Post # 11
    Member
    3252 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I love getting and giving it. You aren’t alone tho….alot of my girlfriends don’t enjoy getting it but love to give.

    Post # 12
    Member
    299 posts
    Helper bee

    Love giving it, hate receiving it. In fact, I just told him years ago don’t bother with me, because it really isn’t effective hah.

    Post # 13
    Member
    14186 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    It’s not my thing. I don’t like receiving it (I enjoy other things much much more!) and I really really hate giving it. Occassionally I’m a good wifey and I know he really appreciates it though. But I really dislike it. It’s a special occassion kind of thing. Or if i’ve had a lot to drink. But yeah….blegh!

    But wow, talk about an intimate topic, LOL.

    Post # 14
    Hostess
    18646 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2009

    Definetly not a big fan of receiving.  It makes me feel really uncomfortable.  Like giving it because my hubby likes it.

    Post # 15
    Member
    654 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    OMG! THANK YOU SO MUCH! Seriously I thought i was the ONLY person who didnt like to receive. whenever i tell my friends that they say im crazy and my husband just isnt doing it right…but I really dont think thats it…I REALLY dont like receiving. problem is he LOVES to give oral. *le sigh*

    Post # 16
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    5498 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I said doesn’t matter because it depends on my mood. Most of the time I love recieving and giving but sometimes I just don’t feel like giving it.

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