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Hi Bees,
This is a very intimate topic, but I have been going back and forth with my girlfriends regarding this. Personally, I cannot stand the taste of cum. Automatically, my body rejects it, and I gag immediately. I have argued with many of my very, very good boy friends who I consider my brothers, that I'm closer with than my own brothers! So ladies, do you spit or swallow?
I think its funny that this is the one poll no one has commented on yet. Ha ha. I am part of the hand finisher and I am proud of it. I have been all of them at one time in my life.
Neither. I finished by hand a couple times, but the feels of it makes me sick.
Hand... I used to swallow/spit but my gag reflex almost won once, and I haven't tried since.
I swallow! I mean, if you spit it out, to me it just stays in your mouth even longer? Like, I don't love the taste either, but if you just swallow it quickly its all over with! And it (to me) is sexier than hacking it back up into a Kleenex. Lol, I'm loving how hardly anyone is commenting on this poll.
Swallow well back in the throat and you will not taste anything! It IS a funny poll tho!
I swallow. I don't taste it. Never have. I know this sounds vulgar, but hey, the title asks for it,LOL. Once he finishes, I just do a big gulp and it's gone.
Sounds crazy, but I'm more grossed out by all the salvia I put on it and my hands.LOL Once I swallow, it's gone, but the salvia takes more to remove.lol
Ack . . . bahahahahaaaa. I can't believe I'm answering this.
Spit. It's a texture thing more than anything else.
Thiscan'tbehappening- I was thinking the same thing, that it stays in your mouth longer.
I'm with Mrs MamaBear - every guy I've ever gone down on has preferred to finish deep, so to speak, so it's easier to swallow than to spit - it's already in the back of my mouth, so spitting would require it to move through my mouth (thus tasting, etc.), whereas swallowing is the simpler of the two choices.
i cant even have it close to my face... i hate the texture and that is so warm... just thinking of it is disgusting... i do like giving him oral sex but when that moment comes i just stay away from it
Bluespurs has the right idea! Deep throat it right at the end and it shoots past the tastebuds. Hardly taste a thing and easy clean up. ;-)
I said "spit", but that's if it's not a holiday or birthday. I am a special ocassion swallow-er! Your poll does not account for us! And yes, to be a good wifey, I include all calander holidays (eg: 4th of July, Labor Day, Martin Luther King Day). We're not Jewish, so luckily, I don't have to include those!
Swallow...the first time I performed oral sex, I was fifteen, and my boyfriend told me he'd like it if I swallowed. So I did. And found nothing offensive about it, so have continued to this day. Meh.
I'm with the hand finishers. Just the smell of it gives me dry heaves.
We rarely have him "finish" during oral anymore... oral always leads to fun for both of us ;-)
But back in the day I was a hand finisher... I am very sensitive about tastes. It's mind over matter and my mind didn't want to! LOL
@Thiscantbehappening - i agree.
I dont think anymore details are required... ha ha
At the request of a user who flagged this thread, we'll rename the title.
The current name is, "Oral Sex: Spit? or Swallow?" I have no idea how to rename that, so we just went with "Oral Sex".
Hope that's ok!
mr. bee is ok the name but im so confuse on who will flag this thread??.. oral sex is very normal... but i think there are people whos not comfortable with their sexuality
Well it's up to you guys as to whether or not you'd like to allow explicitly worded threads. We've had threads on "oral sex" before and nobody complained. I think it was the "spit or swallow" part that was a bit explicit.
I thought maybe renaming the thread might help. But it's up to you guys. My personal preference is to allow all topics, but ask that the titles not be too explicit. But if you guys would prefer to allow explicit titles, we can consider that path too!
Let us know what you think...
Mr.Bee - I dont feel offended by it but I am not offended by changing it either, my personal opinion is ppl are too sensitive.
But to the topic at hand (np pun intended) I personally choose to finish with my hand but if I have to finish with my mouth then I swallow for the simple fact that its one muscle move and its gone but I have to have a bottle of cold water by or some other cold beverage. I am grossed out by the swimming soldiers anyways so I try to make it lead to other activities rather than finishing him up. Sorry for the details, just trying to explain
Just have to say, I am laughing so hard at this thread. Props to you guys for just putting it all out there. :) And I'm wondering a little bit if Bee ever imagined that this was a direction Weddingbee would go in.
@LittlestBirds - We created the Intimacy board b/c there were a growing number of threads posted about it in the boards.
It was certainly an unexpected direction! But people feel safe here, so we consider the Intimacy posts to be the ultimate vote of confidence in Weddingbee's community. :-)
it feels like you're having warm melted ice cream down your throat--definitely NOT sexy. i prefer to finish off by hand, thank you very much.
I usually swallow, but the boy was being an ass the other day so I spit the whole load in his belly button. He was soooooo pissed, it was awesome. I'm so glad I have someone to tell that too!!! LOL
Ew...The thought of it (the spermy part, not the actual act of oral) makes me feel icky... We just use oral as the opening act for the main event. It doesn't get to be the star of the show, and I'm glad it works that way for us :)
Ha ha ha! I'm with VirginiaMarie as a "special occasion" swallower otherwise it's by hand or it was just preliminary. One thing I've noticed is that the texture seems to change the second it hits air. It goes down MUCH easier if it never gets that contact otherwise, ugh. I have a hard time getting it down.
@mamabear
@boston
@daydreamer
I agree with you all! Swallowing makes me taste it LESS and looks a bit sexier too I guess ;) haha
@Mrbee...I agree that changing the title helps
Before FI I would swallow....but it would make my stomach not too happy the next day (or maybe I just thought it did!) With FI now, he doesn't let me let him finish in my mouth so he stops me before he gets to that point and then we have sex. Lol...I hope no one I know in real life sees this!
Such a personal topic...I can't believe I'm answering, but Mr. Bee is right, the hive is a safe place :)
I'm a swallower and have never done anything differently (although I've only been with my FI). Going deep is the best because you don't even taste it. And I know he loves it, so I don't mind at all since we're in the moment. Though the thought of swallowing sperm can be kind of off-putting sometimes when you think about it, so I just try not to lol.
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