- 7 years ago
- Wedding: June 2011
Hello hive, so we’ve got this cat. To give you some background, we used to foster cats. We’ve fostered about a dozen cats, all of them unique and wonderful, until we fostered Jack and couldn’t give him up, so we adopted him a year and a half ago. He was the model cat- super sweet and snuggly, let us sleep at night, and not one aggressive bone in his little kitty body. He is around five years old.
Fast forward to January of this year. We went away on a trip for four days, and had a friend come over to feed him. When we came back, he meowed through the night for about a week straight (we don’t let him into the bedroom). The meowing has gotten a little better, but he has also been very aggressive with us. I’m afraid to pet him anymore because I think he may bit me. Sometimes he will be curled up in my lap and he’ll viciously bite and claw at my arm, sometimes drawing blood. I don’t know what happened to our sweet kitty. We’ve gone long weekends without him before, without incident.
We’ve tried Feliway (as well as a homeopathic “calming spray” I found on Etsy) but it didn’t do a darned thing.
Any advice? I just want my sweet boy back.